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Creative ways of asking a girl to prom

The Great One

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I don't want to do anything that is going to cost me money, just I don't want to ask like everyone else does. Any ideas? Thanks.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ha Ha dude you should at least spend money on flowers when you actually ask her. I mean theres a bunch of cool creative things you could do but you should be willin to spend a bit since youll probly have to anyways,its prom right. I know this one guy asked this chick by leavin clues for her where she had to do a bunch of random things like go to a boys bathroom at the bla bla bla and get the next clue all leadin back to her house where he was waiting with some flowers. Thats just an idea though be creative the best ideas are the ones you think up. if not go with the flowers ------>:flowers:
 

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You dont have to do anything expensive. The reason girls like flowers and stuff when they're asked is because it creates drama. It gives them something to talk about, and if its public it gives them the spotlight. Do something a bit flashy, especially if your sure she'll say yes (like a gf or if she's hinted that she wants you to ask her).

If your looking for ideas, a bunch of guys at my school asked the girl on the morning announcements. The clue idea is great as well. If you know an office aid, you could try writing a note like an office referal that asked her out and have them deliver it (note: I think this is against the rules, so check first and be sure the guy is trustworthy). Use your best judgement and make it big.
 

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PumpingIron13 said:
Ha Ha dude you should at least spend money on flowers when you actually ask her. I mean theres a bunch of cool creative things you could do but you should be willin to spend a bit since youll probly have to anyways,its prom right. I know this one guy asked this chick by leavin clues for her where she had to do a bunch of random things like go to a boys bathroom at the bla bla bla and get the next clue all leadin back to her house where he was waiting with some flowers. Thats just an idea though be creative the best ideas are the ones you think up. if not go with the flowers ------>:flowers:
Yea, well I have no problem spending a little bit, I just dont want something that is going to be expensive.
 

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Mctwist4 said:
Since when do you have to buy flowers just to ask a girl to prom. The girl should be happy enough to be going with you in the first place.
Exactly. Do not buy her flowers, thats ridiculous.

Walk up to HB

You: So, what time should I pick you up for prom?

HB: I'm going to prom with you?

You: Yep

HB: ok! bla bla bla
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zerotwoonenine

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get them to ask you by playing it cool.
 

The Great One

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Krak said:
Exactly. Do not buy her flowers, thats ridiculous.

Walk up to HB

You: So, what time should I pick you up for prom?

HB: I'm going to prom with you?

You: Yep

HB: ok! bla bla bla
Nice, I like this idea. I think I will be using it. :D
 

supajsilver2

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Krak said:
Exactly. Do not buy her flowers, thats ridiculous.

Walk up to HB

You: So, what time should I pick you up for prom?

HB: I'm going to prom with you?

You: Yep

HB: ok! bla bla bla
What if HB replies with something awkward, ie "uh...what are you talking about?"
 

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I'm against buying them things. It's just silly, and doesn't make you seem very suave, if you have to bribe them.

The person I asked was an underclassman.

Me: Man, I can't wait till prom.
Her: Yea, I wish I could go.
Me: I know, right? If only there was so miraculous, imaginary way for you to find a date that is in the graduating class. *wink*
Her: *laughs* So, I'm just a charity case?
Me: Exactly. And thank your lucky stars.

I think it's more important to say something creative than to actually buy them gifts/set up an event. I like Krak's idea.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NYC Dude

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Why spend money on ASKING a girl to prom? That's just stupid, and a waste. Just bring up prom in a convo, find out if she has a date, if she doesn't then ask her to go with you. This is how I got my date:

Me: ... So, who are you going to prom with?
Her: I actually don't have a date yet.
Me: Really? Me neither! Let's go together!
Her: Okay, that sounds awesome.

Simple as that my friend.
 
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