"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Creating Sexual Tension

Enigma2517

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In the few months that I've spent reading this site I've picked up quite a few good techniques in the general of sense of "egging women on" and "creating tension". I like the whole idea of playing keep away and hard to get on the man's side. If you can do it successfully I think it will almost always result in you holding the power.

General ****y and funny statements such as "*Gasp/appalled look* I'm not THAT easy!" or "you're trying to hit on me aren't you?" all work great as well.

My question is, how do u build sexual tension? Physically, I think I understand the whole give her kino withdraw kino act. But conversation wise, especially for people our age (high school) what are some things that can be done?

I think my main objective would probably be to bring up sex itself; I've had very positive reactions from that so far. The thing is...how? You can make really plain and overt. I can see how that would come across as immature or horney for older people but with us young people it actually seems pretty commonplace for dicussion like that. On the other hand I can just use a lot of inneundo and implied meaning. A great line after is always "what do you THINK I mean by that?" *grin*

One last thing, I don't know which dating website had it but I think it was David D. that claimed he had a list of several sexual questions that you can bring up and build tension while at the same time not coming off of as awkward, horny, needy, etc. Do you guys happen to know what these questions sound like? Or maybe you could even come up with your own?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fenderules

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try posting this in the other forum, you might get more of a response
 

Evil-Rom

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Creating sexual tension in Anything Else?
 

Bonhomme

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kino, kino, eye contact, teasing humor, and more kino

... and dancing, of course, if that's on the menu, so to speak.

That's my formula. I'm more tactile than verbal, but if you're better with the owrds, crank up the playful, funny teasing.

Yeah, what is this doing in "Anything Else"?

Mods, where art thou?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dadmonson

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I don't think jokes, touching, and eye contact will make a woman horny or want to f*ck u. I mean, that doesn't turn me on when a woman does those things to me. Is there any other thing u can do?
 
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