"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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creating drama

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from what i see both on the board and in real life, girls love drama, but how can i create drama beside using push-pull, or displaying different emotions? should i be doing something dramatic too?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GloriouslyInsane

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I think it would be wrong to *be* dramatic,you want to *create* drama and make her feelings go up and down,not experience it yourself as it is a *female* characteristic.Could be way wrong though.
 
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You honestly can't think of a way to create drama in a relationship?

Check my signature for a few basics. You can expand in so many directions. Having a loud voice, and a solid frame of reference are key in creating unneccessary drama.

Were you thinking of creating an emotional roller coaster perhaps? Something that stimulates the high's and lows of an ecstatic relationship? You have to know the bad to respect the good?
 
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