"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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creating drama

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from what i see both on the board and in real life, girls love drama, but how can i create drama beside using push-pull, or displaying different emotions? should i be doing something dramatic too?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GloriouslyInsane

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I think it would be wrong to *be* dramatic,you want to *create* drama and make her feelings go up and down,not experience it yourself as it is a *female* characteristic.Could be way wrong though.
 
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You honestly can't think of a way to create drama in a relationship?

Check my signature for a few basics. You can expand in so many directions. Having a loud voice, and a solid frame of reference are key in creating unneccessary drama.

Were you thinking of creating an emotional roller coaster perhaps? Something that stimulates the high's and lows of an ecstatic relationship? You have to know the bad to respect the good?
 
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