"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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creating drama

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from what i see both on the board and in real life, girls love drama, but how can i create drama beside using push-pull, or displaying different emotions? should i be doing something dramatic too?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GloriouslyInsane

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I think it would be wrong to *be* dramatic,you want to *create* drama and make her feelings go up and down,not experience it yourself as it is a *female* characteristic.Could be way wrong though.
 
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You honestly can't think of a way to create drama in a relationship?

Check my signature for a few basics. You can expand in so many directions. Having a loud voice, and a solid frame of reference are key in creating unneccessary drama.

Were you thinking of creating an emotional roller coaster perhaps? Something that stimulates the high's and lows of an ecstatic relationship? You have to know the bad to respect the good?
 
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