"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Creating Chemistry?

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donjuanapprentice01

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Hey guys

Was wondering if there was a way to create chemistry? I like this one chick, and she like me, but said "the most important thing missing is chemistry for me"

So, that got me wondering... can chemistry be created with this chick?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This means she has no sexual attraction for you whatsover (by sexual attraction, this doesn't necessarly mean she wants you to LAY her ASAP. It's the type of attraction where a woman wants to submit herself to you, actively gives you signals, is attracted to you ROMANTICALLY and not ïn a "just friends" way.

You should read the Attraction section in the DJ BIBLE.
 
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Basically she likes you, but not in the way she SHOULD like you.

A girl can like your personality, car, body, etc, but if she feels no romantic attraction towards you, whats the point?

Is it possible to create this chemistry or attraction? Yes. How easy? Depends on how long you've known her, how much time you've spent with her, etc. Generally, the longer you've been with her without this romantic attraction, the harder it is for you to create this attraction in the future. You can get to the point where it's just not worth the time and effort and you need to start looking for other women.

Ask yourself how long you've been "just friends" with her. If it's not too long, you can turn things around. If it's too long, probably better for you to move on. Be honest with yourself and don't lie to yourself or you will just waste lots of time and worrying.
 
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Gary's right ..you don't make her 'feel' like a woman. It's not you per se, just don't do it for her. Girls like guys that make them feel like either little girls again or a full-fledged woman! It's like when you like to be around girls that make you feel like a 'man'. A man needs to be needed by a woman he likes. A woman needs to be disired by a man she likes.

This is why 90% of it's body language and appearance. If you got these two things, much of the time doesn't matter what you say. She'll even laugh at your lamest jokes like it's the funniest thing she's ever heard. Chemistry? Naaaa, she's just crazy about you.
 
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donjuanapprentice01

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Hey Gary

It's not been too long

I feel there is def. something there between us... so give me some insight on how to turn this around. She is def. something special. :rockon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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