Creating Chemistry?

[donjuanapprentice01]

Hey guys

Was wondering if there was a way to create chemistry? I like this one chick, and she like me, but said "the most important thing missing is chemistry for me"

So, that got me wondering... can chemistry be created with this chick?

 

[Gary29]

This means she has no sexual attraction for you whatsover (by sexual attraction, this doesn't necessarly mean she wants you to LAY her ASAP. It's the type of attraction where a woman wants to submit herself to you, actively gives you signals, is attracted to you ROMANTICALLY and not ïn a "just friends" way.

You should read the Attraction section in the DJ BIBLE.

 

[Gary29]

Basically she likes you, but not in the way she SHOULD like you.

A girl can like your personality, car, body, etc, but if she feels no romantic attraction towards you, whats the point?

Is it possible to create this chemistry or attraction? Yes. How easy? Depends on how long you've known her, how much time you've spent with her, etc. Generally, the longer you've been with her without this romantic attraction, the harder it is for you to create this attraction in the future. You can get to the point where it's just not worth the time and effort and you need to start looking for other women.

Ask yourself how long you've been "just friends" with her. If it's not too long, you can turn things around. If it's too long, probably better for you to move on. Be honest with yourself and don't lie to yourself or you will just waste lots of time and worrying.

 

[tmpgstx]

Gary's right ..you don't make her 'feel' like a woman. It's not you per se, just don't do it for her. Girls like guys that make them feel like either little girls again or a full-fledged woman! It's like when you like to be around girls that make you feel like a 'man'. A man needs to be needed by a woman he likes. A woman needs to be disired by a man she likes.

This is why 90% of it's body language and appearance. If you got these two things, much of the time doesn't matter what you say. She'll even laugh at your lamest jokes like it's the funniest thing she's ever heard. Chemistry? Naaaa, she's just crazy about you.

 

[donjuanapprentice01]

Hey Gary

It's not been too long

I feel there is def. something there between us... so give me some insight on how to turn this around. She is def. something special. :rockon: