Creating attaction...all the time...

[pooparu]

Alright guys, I've got another question that I think might affect more than just me (if it doesn't all well).

I'm sure you all meet girls that are really cool, pretty attractive, whatever, but you actually wanna be FRIENDS with. Well what's been happening lately is they end up getting attracted just like girls I'm gaming (I guess since I've left the, "Sarge on" mindset and mroe just like, "Have fun" mindset I'm constantly in game mode I guess), and what ends up happening is I treat them just like one of the guys or cool girls, joke on them, have fun, etc. Sometimes they end up geting upset at a joke or something and then really get upset, and this is where I'm at an impass.

1. My natural reaction now is just to go something like, "awww you're having a tantrum, that's cute. This is where I apologize right?

2. Alot of times I guess ths builds more attraction, but they also get mad, and sometimes its not that "fake" anger, I think they might really b offended.

Now here I don't think I owe an apology at all, its more like they want my approval/validation but I'm not out to make them my girl, I just wanna have fun. So what do you guys out there with experience with this do (please no KBJs, no offense to yall, but I need good advice), do you just continue as normal? I'm not afraid to walk away, but at the same time, I don't want evry girl just attracted to me, I want friends that are actually girls for pivots and for just fun, but it seems like this is going to be harder and harder.

Any advice on making females your friends, dealing with situations like this, whatever, is really appreciated, thanks in advance bros.

 

[Tom Juan]

Okay then.

 

[WC2]

You don't need to make girls your friends. In fact, these girls might see you as a jerk, but at least they see you as something. You'd much rather be that ****y bastard that all the girls are competing for rather than that nice guy all the girls are laughing at behing closed doors.

 

[Dutchy]

You wanna be just friends with a girl? Well then you have to leave all the seduction behind with this girl from the beginning on, no sarging, no gaming, talk to her like you would talk with a guy. It must be clear for her you two will be no more then friends. So no hidden clues to her or romantic words.

But don't expect every girl to like this behaviour, some may blow you off because they don't want you as a friend. It is like making friendships with guy's, you can't just chose your friends, you have to fit to each other. You should see this "female friend" as your best friend, but then with t*ts and a p*ssy.

Hope this was a good piece of advice

Greetz from Holland

 

[GaryUranga]

think about how you game a girl andhow you make friends, theres a difference youve got the gaming personality already, with girls you just wanna be friends you just shouldnt use the CF as much, like if she gets upset apologize then youd be going the friend way instad of using more CF on her, cut down on the attractive things (as awful as that sounds )

 

[pooparu]

Yea that does make more sense.

Hwoever, I find girls respond more positively and its easier to know them when I'm in gaming them (which is now ALL the time, its harder to talk normal than to just be in constant DJ mode), rather than trying the usual friends thing, becuase many think that all guys have a hidden agenda.

Its gonna be hard not to game a girl because its just part of me now, most stuff I don't consciously think of, plus I'm kinda woried I'm gonna start relapsing. Maybe I should just LJBF girls are drop huge hints at the beginning, what do you think?