Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Post photos of a guy with model good looks and an income of 150,000+Luke Skywalker said:I would like to know what profile a guy can put up to get allot of responses,
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Post photos of a guy with model good looks and an income of 150,000+Luke Skywalker said:I would like to know what profile a guy can put up to get allot of responses,
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Through personal experimentation I can tell you that your pics are the most important aspect of your profile. I've had pretty much the same profile on the site, but I got no responses or favorite requests whatsoever using my old photos. I began experimenting and I took hundreds of photos of myself and I picked out 2-3 that I thought showed me at my best. As soon as I posted the new pics I got 3 messages in the first week.Luke Skywalker said:think GQ model pics, or if you have a good pic with lots of muscles will get lots of responses -- so I think the ladies look at the pics more than the profile.
Hahahahahahahahahavachir said:chill out dude. ur negs arent gonna get you any poon from me.
See here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=157917Dust 2 Dust said:Post photos of a guy with model good looks and an income of 150,000+
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It's already been donethewarrior said:I'm gonna cruise webshots for ripped guys that look like they stepped out of GQ, write a so-so profile, and see if chicks will respond. If they do respond, then we'll know they just care about pics (just like guys).
My friend was looking at profiles at this one site once and told me how great these women were and how he was having these long gay convos with them about all this gay crap and then showed me the picks. And most of these profiles, get this, would have a real sexy pic and then if you look at the rest of them they would get progressively fatter with shorter hair and more and more acne and finally looked like the washed-up whor drunks they were. I just ridiculed him until he got it. So fuking sad man. You really do have to go out there and meet them in the flesh, because, well, a lot of those lazy fuk whors sit around on their azs and do nothing all day as it is, so go find some current lady who is outside moving her azs around at least.The Bat said:This is why guys need to stay away from online dating. Sure you hear about success stories every now and then, but they are all few and far in between.
Truly. Most hors can't read too good.Luke Skywalker said:-- so I think the ladies look at the pics more than the profile.
I love guys who do stuff to show that women have the edge in dating and sex just to feel better about themselves. ("See how hard is to get sex from a girl? All women are shallow and superficial and I hate them, so don't tell me to improve myself!")Poonani Maker said:Like within a couple of seconds, literally 2, I got 2 views, 1 email, and another Instant message solicitation from dudes. UNbelievable. I wish we, as guys, had that kind of marketability. UNbelievable. I can't get over it. I bet you all, come tomorrow or whenever I check it again, that I'll have hundreds of emails. The chick's picture I posted was a 5, maybe 6. UNbelievable.
So glad I'm not a chick and havin to put up with all these swinging d1cks soliciting my favor. I understand what they go through now. Guys are sooo stupid, and giving every other guy a bad name. No wonder it's ALWAYS all on us. Sheesh. I'd be a total lesbian if I was a woman.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's not so much in real life. While chicks do get hit on 'a lot' in real life, I've go out quite often with very good looking girls before (just me and them). When I leave the table to go get a drink or something, I always expect that by the time I return that there will be a guy hitting on them. 95% of the time, in the 5 minutes I'm gone - this is NOT the case. This is 2 good looking girls sitting alone, at a table (in a bar - not like an eatery), in a popular pick up spot!!Leporello said:well I think it's not that different from real life...sure the hot chick will have guys surrounding her and even the OK-looking ones will get hit on regularly.
Whether it's a bar or online, you gotta stand out.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Luminescence said:I would say none of the men chasing them.....More the ones that don't.
Con-akt said:Ok, take a minute to step back and take a close look at yourself in the mirror.
What in the hell are you doing??!! You post as women and then bathe in male attention? You need hobbies or somthing. Id say you need some ***** but theres little chance of that in your present state.
This is some seriously ****ed up ****.
If you guys acctually knew any women and talked to them you could find out what their expierence is like.
I see it now, one of you guys makes a fake profile and then another douchebag from the forum goes and contacts that profile and in a seperate thread he complains about being shot down or flaked on as the homo wierdo who posted the profile braggs about how he played with this loser.
Congradulations, you have arived at the very bottom of the barrel.![]()
Luminescence said:To me this just seems like another little piece evidence supporting the (already obvious) reality..... That in our species reproductive process, even mediocre women are valuable.....whereas 80% of men are expendable. Us males are produced in bulk by our species and the ''mating game'' is biased against you.
Luke Skywalker said:What did you expect? This is all common knowledge. I would like to know what profile a guy can put up to get allot of responses, or how to be in that 10% of the hottest dudes bracket. Do you have to bulk up? Get ripped? I'm sure if people knew exactly how to look in the pics -- and what profile to write -- to get emails and smileys from the ladies --- would be all ears.
Now, THAT would be a good thread. I think GQ model pics, or if you have a good pic with lots of muscles will get lots of responses -- so I think the ladies look at the pics more than the profile. So, poonanie-maker, instead of recycling last year's old news with these lame experiments why not try a few that really count.
I did the same thing with FB and holy smokes! People messaging and friend requesting off the hook. Over 50 freind reqs from random dudes in less than 3 months. One guy said he was searching for his sister but found me and I am much better.. Another guy said he has no hot girls on his friends list and to "hook a brother up".Poonani Maker said:chick on plentyoffish. Unbelievable.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.