"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Created a profile as a chick on plentyoffish. Unbelievable.

Dust 2 Dust

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Luke Skywalker said:
I would like to know what profile a guy can put up to get allot of responses,
Post photos of a guy with model good looks and an income of 150,000+
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Luke Skywalker said:
think GQ model pics, or if you have a good pic with lots of muscles will get lots of responses -- so I think the ladies look at the pics more than the profile.
Through personal experimentation I can tell you that your pics are the most important aspect of your profile. I've had pretty much the same profile on the site, but I got no responses or favorite requests whatsoever using my old photos. I began experimenting and I took hundreds of photos of myself and I picked out 2-3 that I thought showed me at my best. As soon as I posted the new pics I got 3 messages in the first week.
 

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vachir said:
chill out dude. ur negs arent gonna get you any poon from me.
Hahahahahahahahaha
 

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I'm gonna cruise webshots for ripped guys that look like they stepped out of GQ, write a so-so profile, and see if chicks will respond. If they do respond, then we'll know they just care about pics (just like guys).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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They send porn to women on facebook, a girl did that to me once, but mostly guys to girls. Most of the time it's some Borat arab guy who speaks really funny English....

I love want you in the between forever your eyes are ambitious

I am the doggystyle yours

I dunno, maybe they are using translation software. What gives?
 

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The Bat said:
This is why guys need to stay away from online dating. Sure you hear about success stories every now and then, but they are all few and far in between.
My friend was looking at profiles at this one site once and told me how great these women were and how he was having these long gay convos with them about all this gay crap and then showed me the picks. And most of these profiles, get this, would have a real sexy pic and then if you look at the rest of them they would get progressively fatter with shorter hair and more and more acne and finally looked like the washed-up whor drunks they were. I just ridiculed him until he got it. So fuking sad man. You really do have to go out there and meet them in the flesh, because, well, a lot of those lazy fuk whors sit around on their azs and do nothing all day as it is, so go find some current lady who is outside moving her azs around at least.
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
-- so I think the ladies look at the pics more than the profile.
Truly. Most hors can't read too good.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
Like within a couple of seconds, literally 2, I got 2 views, 1 email, and another Instant message solicitation from dudes. UNbelievable. I wish we, as guys, had that kind of marketability. UNbelievable. I can't get over it. I bet you all, come tomorrow or whenever I check it again, that I'll have hundreds of emails. The chick's picture I posted was a 5, maybe 6. UNbelievable.

So glad I'm not a chick and havin to put up with all these swinging d1cks soliciting my favor. I understand what they go through now. Guys are sooo stupid, and giving every other guy a bad name. No wonder it's ALWAYS all on us. Sheesh. I'd be a total lesbian if I was a woman.
I love guys who do stuff to show that women have the edge in dating and sex just to feel better about themselves. ("See how hard is to get sex from a girl? All women are shallow and superficial and I hate them, so don't tell me to improve myself!")

Instead of creating a fake profile of a woman on a online dating service to see how many men want sex from her, why don't you read a book and expand your horizons? Why don't you learn another language? Why don't you take dancing lessons? Why don't you do to school to become a lawyer?

Do something constructive to help yourself in dating world.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I used to be friends with this chick who was like a 5 or a 6. I went around to her house one day after I'd been out drinking. She had made a profile on NZDating.com and her friend (7 or an 8) made one too. The 5-6 was getting a lot of emails. Maybe one every 2 minutes. The 7-8 was getting literally one every 20 seconds.

She wouldn't even have time to read and respond to one before she would have another 5 in her inbox. She pretty much wasn't paying attention to anything she read, and sending very half arse replies.

Ever wonder why girls never respond to your online dating emails...? Now you know... Fvck online dating.
 

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Im very interested in seeing somebody take the results of posting a profile of a very attractive man.
 

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Ok dudes. It wasn't that many, like 12, but, all of the solicitation (emails) from guys ranged from half-assed "whats up." to "I have an MBA and 6'2" bla bla bla." So I subsequently deleted all but one. The one that stood out was from a divorced father of 2, who knew how to talk to women obviously, with 5 short sentences separated by ... and at least 3-4 misspellings. His email just seemed natural, laid back, and easy-going. Not trying to show off, the first and main profile pic was of him and his ex? wife? Anyway, it was a well-formed normal simple profile. Nuthin fancy.

I'm not gay, just that the profile exuded experience in the sack without saying too much.

Here's what he said:

Hey wats up? (email subject)

How are you?... My name is Chris... Im 24 and
fun to be around I would like to try to get to
know you better. Hope to here from you
soon?... BTW you have a gorgeous smile

All the others just flat out sucked or their pictures were not congruent with what they said i.e. showin off.

Of course, while I was checkin out the 12 emails, I mean, within seconds, I was getting IM'd by dudes. This is ridiculous.
 

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well I think it's not that different from real life...sure the hot chick will have guys surrounding her and even the OK-looking ones will get hit on regularly.

Whether it's a bar or online, you gotta stand out.
 

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Leporello said:
well I think it's not that different from real life...sure the hot chick will have guys surrounding her and even the OK-looking ones will get hit on regularly.

Whether it's a bar or online, you gotta stand out.
It's not so much in real life. While chicks do get hit on 'a lot' in real life, I've go out quite often with very good looking girls before (just me and them). When I leave the table to go get a drink or something, I always expect that by the time I return that there will be a guy hitting on them. 95% of the time, in the 5 minutes I'm gone - this is NOT the case. This is 2 good looking girls sitting alone, at a table (in a bar - not like an eatery), in a popular pick up spot!!

Men are typically AFCs and do not approach women without an pre-indication of being welcome.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Con-akt said:
Ok, take a minute to step back and take a close look at yourself in the mirror.


What in the hell are you doing??!! You post as women and then bathe in male attention? You need hobbies or somthing. Id say you need some ***** but theres little chance of that in your present state.

This is some seriously ****ed up ****.

If you guys acctually knew any women and talked to them you could find out what their expierence is like.

I see it now, one of you guys makes a fake profile and then another douchebag from the forum goes and contacts that profile and in a seperate thread he complains about being shot down or flaked on as the homo wierdo who posted the profile braggs about how he played with this loser.

Congradulations, you have arived at the very bottom of the barrel.:up:

LOL this is so damn funny..:yes: :yes: :yes:
 

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Luminescence said:
To me this just seems like another little piece evidence supporting the (already obvious) reality..... That in our species reproductive process, even mediocre women are valuable.....whereas 80% of men are expendable. Us males are produced in bulk by our species and the ''mating game'' is biased against you.

Exactly but this reality is sooo sad that most men cannot face it...
 

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Luke Skywalker said:
What did you expect? This is all common knowledge. I would like to know what profile a guy can put up to get allot of responses, or how to be in that 10% of the hottest dudes bracket. Do you have to bulk up? Get ripped? I'm sure if people knew exactly how to look in the pics -- and what profile to write -- to get emails and smileys from the ladies --- would be all ears.

Now, THAT would be a good thread. I think GQ model pics, or if you have a good pic with lots of muscles will get lots of responses -- so I think the ladies look at the pics more than the profile. So, poonanie-maker, instead of recycling last year's old news with these lame experiments why not try a few that really count.

LOL.. only 10% of men can be in that 10% so no matter how hard you try the standards will raise every time too many men try extra hard..lol
 

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Poonani Maker said:
chick on plentyoffish. Unbelievable.
I did the same thing with FB and holy smokes! People messaging and friend requesting off the hook. Over 50 freind reqs from random dudes in less than 3 months. One guy said he was searching for his sister but found me and I am much better.. Another guy said he has no hot girls on his friends list and to "hook a brother up".

Many guys here will tell you to stay away from the online dating thing and this thread serves as partial evidence for that. I find it much easier to meet people in real life and work it from there with my personality, etc. An average dude is not going to find a babe online unless he is using a mail order bride system or craiglist ($$$). Average dudes more often can find bombshells in real life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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