"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Create A World By Dancing

George Gordon

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Here's something I did half a year ago with a former girlfriend. It just happened. And it had an interesting effect.

We went to a rock show. It was one of those shows where the dance floor is so packed that it's diffcult to move throw the crowd. You're constantly shoulder to shoulder with someone.

During an upbeat song, I started dancing in my own little space. Slowly, I let myself get more animated and expanded my personal space.

People who don't dance always make way for people who DO dance.

By the end of the song, I had my own circle or space that would have fit about fifteen people before I opened it.

Next came a slow song. I took my girlfriend's hand and pulled her from the sideline into my circle for a slow dance.

For a full song, it was just her and I surrounded by a circle of people creating a bubble for us. (If you were one of them, my thanks.)

And to keep that space as large as it was when I was dancing by myself, I led her around the outer circle, ensuring no one moved back in on it.

Needless to say, she thought it was such a romantic experience.

Just an idea...

Cheers!

!GEORGE GORDON!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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