"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Create A World By Dancing

George Gordon

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Here's something I did half a year ago with a former girlfriend. It just happened. And it had an interesting effect.

We went to a rock show. It was one of those shows where the dance floor is so packed that it's diffcult to move throw the crowd. You're constantly shoulder to shoulder with someone.

During an upbeat song, I started dancing in my own little space. Slowly, I let myself get more animated and expanded my personal space.

People who don't dance always make way for people who DO dance.

By the end of the song, I had my own circle or space that would have fit about fifteen people before I opened it.

Next came a slow song. I took my girlfriend's hand and pulled her from the sideline into my circle for a slow dance.

For a full song, it was just her and I surrounded by a circle of people creating a bubble for us. (If you were one of them, my thanks.)

And to keep that space as large as it was when I was dancing by myself, I led her around the outer circle, ensuring no one moved back in on it.

Needless to say, she thought it was such a romantic experience.

Just an idea...

Cheers!

!GEORGE GORDON!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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