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Crazy week - 5 dates

darksprezzatura

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With covid sort of out of the picture, girls are hopping out to bang. I've had some free time since I'm just starting out with my new job.

1)
New Date 1, had fun
Went base 2
"Thanks for the great time text"
Asked her out again
She said she's dating and it'd be cheating, don't want to lead you on
I said no worries, screenshot chat, no contact

2)
New Date 2 flaked twice no reschedule
Number blocked, next

3)
Old plate came back in the picture
Smashed silly
Unreliable with her time schedule, bottom rotation

4)
Regular plate
Spent the night with her yesterday
Brought her friend
Lot of fun, went out for food/coffee
Smashed silly
She knows I'm not in long term

5)
New date, went out once
She's attracted but wary of being pumped and dumped
Withholding intimacy so I blocked number deleted, no drama

6)
Really cute HB8 plate, smashed a few times
She's going out of state and wants me to come meet her there
Told her to dutch half the flight tickets.
She said cool but doesn't seem convinced, so I'm keeping distance for now


Note:
Cold approached atleast 5-6 girls for the first time this week, great response from most of them, took 2 numbers


"Give me your number" is the whole point of the cold approach, calibrate game accordingly
 

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It's good that you are making the approaches. Making the approaches is one of the more difficult things.

You smashed a regular plate and a lower priority plate. Number 6 sounds like a new place and the only one the new dates worked out to some degree. You've got a regular plate going so you can be more patient with new dates.
 

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It's good that you are making the approaches. Making the approaches is one of the more difficult things.

You smashed a regular plate and a lower priority plate. Number 6 sounds like a new place and the only one the new dates worked out to some degree. You've got a regular plate going so you can be more patient with new dates.
Atm I have 3 regulars but I'm looking to upgrade/pull for sport
 

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It's exhausting isn't it? Crazy how many turn into flakes or no responses.
 

darksprezzatura

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It's exhausting isn't it? Crazy how many turn into flakes or no responses.
You know what's worse, detaching from nutjobs.

If you go through enough plates and pull fast, you'll encounter the general psychos often.

Like tonight I suspect one girl I video chatted/sexted to be dangerous. I'm already sort of paranoid so I'll list down some red flags.

Red:
Absent father due to army posting.
Said her mother is sort of mentally unwell.
She's on bipolar meds.
Drinks.
Does charlie.
Friends with really shady messed up druggie guys.
No real friends.


Green:
Hot
Works out.
Holds a stable high income job.
Intelligent
Horse rider.


Now instead of listening to my d!ck, I have decided to run to the hills.

Detaching from psychotic chicks fast is dangerous, what's the best way to detach according to you?
 

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You already have one regular plate, you don't need to rush with these other girls yet. Continue approaching until you find more reliable girls and maybe a couple of backups just in case.
 

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You know what's worse, detaching from nutjobs.

If you go through enough plates and pull fast, you'll encounter the general psychos often.

Like tonight I suspect one girl I video chatted/sexted to be dangerous. I'm already sort of paranoid so I'll list down some red flags.

Red:
Absent father due to army posting.
Said her mother is sort of mentally unwell.
She's on bipolar meds.
Drinks.
Does charlie.
Friends with really shady messed up druggie guys.
No real friends.


Green:
Hot
Works out.
Holds a stable high income job.
Intelligent
Horse rider.


Now instead of listening to my d!ck, I have decided to run to the hills.

Detaching from psychotic chicks fast is dangerous, what's the best way to detach according to you?
Run, I have a good crazy detector too. Cant stand clingy psychos dont care how hot they are.
 
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