"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Crazy Strict Parents

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I got together with this girl and I can tell that she really likes me. The problem is that she has really strict parents who do everything to make sure she doesn't get too close to guys.
She had to lie to her parents to go ice skating with me and we can rarely see each other. It's really frustrating that I can only see her in school. I half want to next her but should I break up with a girl just because her parents are strict? It's not her fault...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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On one hand they are making things easier for your seduction, because you seem adventurous and dangerous because she's not supposed to be with you. On the other hand they are making things difficult. You can rarely see this girl. The best thing for you to do is have more options. Get some more girls in your stable. So when she can actually get out of the house to go see you, you'll look good in her eyes cause she's sacrificing something for you so, you are obviously an investment. Plus, when she can't go out with you, you won't be depressed or down on your game because you always have your other girls to hang out with. Nice!
 

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Try going out as a group so her parents will feel OK. If worst comes to worst, try talking to the parents when they pick up their little girl. Just try to talk to them when ever you see them.
 

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I have to admit it's frustrating me alot so I agree that I need to get more girls in my "stable". But do you mean get more girlfriends or just getting friends that are girls?
 

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Get more girls in general, its up to you to decide wear to go from there. Personally I would try to lay the mac down on these other honeys...PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT! The point of getting more girls is so you don't get obsessed over just one. Open up your options.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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moldingcheese

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We are kind of getting estranged right now coz we rarely see each other at school and she can't ever come out. Over the summer we will both be gone so we won't comunicate at all except maybe by email.
Is there anything I can do before we both go off to vacation?
 

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You're in a tought place man. I used to date a girl with the same type of parents. Now that its been over for almost two years, it was fun but mostly I put too much energy into it when we only hung out once in a great while. Plus, she didn't put out which totally blew.

In my opinion you should just go out and meet new girls. In the event that she does go out somewhere, tell her to call you. In the mean time, go hang out with the new girls. Looks to me that it just wont work out.
 

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Are you saying I should try to get another girlfriend? I don't like the idea of having more than one gf. If word leaks out my reputation would be ruined. Should I just next my gf and look for another girl?
I m thinking that once I can drive next year then we can sneak out. Has anyone been in a secret relationship? Tell me about it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do you DJs do during the summer? No school and no girls to meet. Are you supposed to keep a stash of girls' numbers to call during the summer?
 
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