"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Crazy situation TRUST ME!!! I need help bros!!

Rint

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Ok i met this girl hella good looking. Me and her hit it off pretty good but she's a little crazy cause she's stressed. She's foreign exchange but she's fluent in english. Here's the conflict. She has a bf who she wants to dump she wants to help her family and help them pay for stuff. She's living with her uncle and he's super strict. She's trying to do well in school to get into a good university. Me and her kissed before and got into a fight cause i told her she doesn't do as much for me as i do for her(big mistake). She told me she's confused and doesn't know if she wants to be with me. We stopped kissing. What should i do to make her feel the same and stop being confused without getting hurt? The reason i blew up on her that one night was i've waited a week or 2 for her. Help me out BROS!!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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**** also she takes everything the wrong way i have to b hella careful when talking to her sometimes i dont think it's worth it but there r times i do
 

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Sounds like too much drama...
 

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mpimpin said:
Sounds like too much drama...
I agree.

Run away from drama, it has a habit of ruining EVERYTHING it touches. You put in effort to sort it out, it gets worse. The solution is simple though, if you feed it, it gets worse, so ignore it. Just drop this girl cold, move on. If worse comes to worse, no more drama and no more chick. I think thats a okay trade.

BUT

you could also get a lucky streak and the chick could end up comming back into you're world. MMmmmmm.

And when I say lucky, I mean like I would bet on you're odds provided you haven't been a stupid arogent mother ****er. (The opposite of a DJ.)
 
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