"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Crazy situation TRUST ME!!! I need help bros!!

Rint

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Ok i met this girl hella good looking. Me and her hit it off pretty good but she's a little crazy cause she's stressed. She's foreign exchange but she's fluent in english. Here's the conflict. She has a bf who she wants to dump she wants to help her family and help them pay for stuff. She's living with her uncle and he's super strict. She's trying to do well in school to get into a good university. Me and her kissed before and got into a fight cause i told her she doesn't do as much for me as i do for her(big mistake). She told me she's confused and doesn't know if she wants to be with me. We stopped kissing. What should i do to make her feel the same and stop being confused without getting hurt? The reason i blew up on her that one night was i've waited a week or 2 for her. Help me out BROS!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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**** also she takes everything the wrong way i have to b hella careful when talking to her sometimes i dont think it's worth it but there r times i do
 

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Sounds like too much drama...
 

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mpimpin said:
Sounds like too much drama...
I agree.

Run away from drama, it has a habit of ruining EVERYTHING it touches. You put in effort to sort it out, it gets worse. The solution is simple though, if you feed it, it gets worse, so ignore it. Just drop this girl cold, move on. If worse comes to worse, no more drama and no more chick. I think thats a okay trade.

BUT

you could also get a lucky streak and the chick could end up comming back into you're world. MMmmmmm.

And when I say lucky, I mean like I would bet on you're odds provided you haven't been a stupid arogent mother ****er. (The opposite of a DJ.)
 
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