"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Crazy question here: Would this kill my chances?

BannedGod

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I'm still debating whether I should do it or not...

I'm going snowshoeing with a few friends and a girl that I have interest in, and one of my friend (he won't be there) dared me to strip down to my boxers at the top of the mountain and take a picture. Now, I'm not one to back off from a dare (when it's reasonable) and I actually really like the idea, could be funny as hell. Boxer + Winter + 800m high + wind + -10 degrees celcius = win in my book :D

However, doing this in front of a prospect, would it hurt my chances? Or on the opposite it would make me look like a "crazy wild guy" who's daring and not scared of consequences?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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neghitzbrah

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Im no DJ, yet... but why don't you tell her to do it with you? If she will get a kick out of you doing it, then she should do it too. Otherwise, if she says no, then you know not to waste your time cuz she is boring. If she refused to do it, would you wanna talk to this girl still?

negz
 

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I'd advise against it purely for health reasons. If you're at the top of the mountain and you take everything except your boxers off, you sure a s**** are gonna get some sort of frostbite or hypothermia. You might get the girl, but your balls are gonna be frozen solid.. If the conditions aren't that bad, then go for it if you want.

You could probably try and do the same thing except in a different place, i.e, outside of wherever you're staying...etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Deadly_Ripped

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If you've got a body that will get her wet at the sight of it, then I'd do it for sure, but if you're packing a keg instead of a 6-pack on your tummy, or if you're scrawny, then why would you want to display your body to a prospect in a completely non-sexual situation?

Plus, if your friend who won't be there is daring you, then there'll be no one there to actually dare you to do it in front of this girl, which means you'll just be that guy who decided to strip down on the top of the mountain on his own accord?

IDK about this one, especially given the legitimate chance that you could end up hurt. -10 C isn't all that bad as long as the wind isn't kicked up. at -10 with 30 mph wind, you'll have less than 10 minutes before you get frostbite. Keep your gloves on the whole time.
 

Mantis Toboggan

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BannedGod said:
However, doing this in front of a prospect, would it hurt my chances? Or on the opposite it would make me look like a "crazy wild guy" who's daring and not scared of consequences?
If you were a "crazy wild guy who's daring and not scared of consequences" you wouldn't be asking this question. So don't try to put on the appearance that you are.

If your goal was to do this, then do it. Don't change your plans because of some chick who hasn't given you anything.

The only way this ruins your chances with her is if you think that it does. Either this girl is going to like your vibe or she isn't. That decision is being made well before your naked mountain climbing thing.
 

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Go for it, but do it to amuse YOURSELF, not to impress some chick.

Girls LOVE any kind of ****y displays of masculinity as a general rule.
 

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f283000 said:
You know we are in bad shape as men when we are thinking of stripping down to our boxers somewhere full of snow -10 celcius just to impress some sloot!
Yeah, for fvck's sake.

This thread made me think of this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1cUNNKzj_Nc&feature=related

Except it would be even worse in -10C snow.

Make sure you take a cucumber to stuff down your boxers before you strip off if you decide to do it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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