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Crazy question here: Would this kill my chances?

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I'm still debating whether I should do it or not...

I'm going snowshoeing with a few friends and a girl that I have interest in, and one of my friend (he won't be there) dared me to strip down to my boxers at the top of the mountain and take a picture. Now, I'm not one to back off from a dare (when it's reasonable) and I actually really like the idea, could be funny as hell. Boxer + Winter + 800m high + wind + -10 degrees celcius = win in my book :D

However, doing this in front of a prospect, would it hurt my chances? Or on the opposite it would make me look like a "crazy wild guy" who's daring and not scared of consequences?
 

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Im no DJ, yet... but why don't you tell her to do it with you? If she will get a kick out of you doing it, then she should do it too. Otherwise, if she says no, then you know not to waste your time cuz she is boring. If she refused to do it, would you wanna talk to this girl still?

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I'd advise against it purely for health reasons. If you're at the top of the mountain and you take everything except your boxers off, you sure a s**** are gonna get some sort of frostbite or hypothermia. You might get the girl, but your balls are gonna be frozen solid.. If the conditions aren't that bad, then go for it if you want.

You could probably try and do the same thing except in a different place, i.e, outside of wherever you're staying...etc.
 

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If you've got a body that will get her wet at the sight of it, then I'd do it for sure, but if you're packing a keg instead of a 6-pack on your tummy, or if you're scrawny, then why would you want to display your body to a prospect in a completely non-sexual situation?

Plus, if your friend who won't be there is daring you, then there'll be no one there to actually dare you to do it in front of this girl, which means you'll just be that guy who decided to strip down on the top of the mountain on his own accord?

IDK about this one, especially given the legitimate chance that you could end up hurt. -10 C isn't all that bad as long as the wind isn't kicked up. at -10 with 30 mph wind, you'll have less than 10 minutes before you get frostbite. Keep your gloves on the whole time.
 

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BannedGod said:
However, doing this in front of a prospect, would it hurt my chances? Or on the opposite it would make me look like a "crazy wild guy" who's daring and not scared of consequences?
If you were a "crazy wild guy who's daring and not scared of consequences" you wouldn't be asking this question. So don't try to put on the appearance that you are.

If your goal was to do this, then do it. Don't change your plans because of some chick who hasn't given you anything.

The only way this ruins your chances with her is if you think that it does. Either this girl is going to like your vibe or she isn't. That decision is being made well before your naked mountain climbing thing.
 

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Go for it, but do it to amuse YOURSELF, not to impress some chick.

Girls LOVE any kind of ****y displays of masculinity as a general rule.
 

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f283000 said:
You know we are in bad shape as men when we are thinking of stripping down to our boxers somewhere full of snow -10 celcius just to impress some sloot!
Yeah, for fvck's sake.

This thread made me think of this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1cUNNKzj_Nc&feature=related

Except it would be even worse in -10C snow.

Make sure you take a cucumber to stuff down your boxers before you strip off if you decide to do it.
 

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