Crazy high interest levels from a girl, what do you do?

[MoreThanSmooth]

Just a quick question, guys. Some of the girls I've been chatting with online are completely disinterested, others are keen to the point of creeping me out a bit.

What do you do in the latter situation, especially if you're not anywhere near so keen yourself? Do you avoid in case they are psycho or want to chain you to an LTR immediately? Or do you just go with it because you'll probably get bedded?

I had a girl today who I messaged on an OLD site. She's physically fit and plays sports, seems cute but her photos are all pretty rubbish because she's cropped them really badly. She's obviously put minimum effort into her profile, and I wouldn't expect her to get much attention as a result.

Anyway her description was something like "Looking for a relationship but there are no decent guys yadda yadda yadda". When I see negativity like that I normally run a mile, but she added "I'm about to give up this site, please message me if you're genuine".

So why not? Nothing to lose for me.

Sent a message, within 10 minutes she's chatting (though very short low effort replies), and then I escalated her to the point that she literally wants to meet today right now. Wtf? I've given her my number and told her I'm busy (I am), but she's up for a date 5 mins after talking to me and instant replying to all my messages.

Sounds to me like she's one of those LTR-and-nothing-else obsessive chicks so I probably won't get anywhere with her, but would you go for it?

Had a similar girl at work once who wanted to date me for like a year after we talked once, never did because it creeped me out and she wasn't even my type. This is reminding me of that a bit.

 

[Rainman4707]

Women are'nt always what they seem.

I was texting a woman about four years ago. She looked pretty, but to skinny for my liking in her pics. So i was'nt bothered about the outcome.

I was in a rush getting ready on the night i was meeting her so did'nt make so much effort as i would of done if i was meeting someone i thought could lead to LTR.

When i picked her up she was'nt skinny, she had filled out. 6.8 on photos. 9 in person.

 

[djthiago1]

Women are'nt always what they seem.

I was texting a woman about four years ago. She looked pretty, but to skinny for my liking in her pics. So i was'nt bothered about the outcome.

I was in a rush getting ready on the night i was meeting her so did'nt make so much effort as i would of done if i was meeting someone i thought could lead to LTR.

When i picked her up she was'nt skinny, she had filled out. 6.8 on photos. 9 in person.

Well that's rare haha

 

[El Payaso]

Go for it. See what happens. Like you said. You have nothing to lose.

 

[Von]

if it's in her bio + she keep mentioning it.

I would expect quick makeout or even a lay...

She says "LTR/no goodman" for me seems a girl who will be a quick lay... cause she wants a LTR.

Personally, unless you meet her... anything on OLD is irrelavant.

At the date, and following the date... if she's too "easy" or "intense/needy" ... Avoid her.

Easy girls are a turn off but we can still get laid

It's like easy guys are a turn off for woman, except they won't give you a lay...

Date or Next

 

[ohrein]

Biggest red flag to watch for is definitely intensity. The speed at which a relationship moves is irrelevant in my opinion, if she's not some clingy weirdo. Weirdest chick I met while OLD was giving off serious intense vibes from the get go. It felt off but I went with it anyway and she turned out to be straight nutter butter. I never really put all the information together into a cohesive understanding but I do know if a chick is coming off as intense, you should be wary.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Biggest red flag to watch for is definitely intensity. The speed at which a relationship moves is irrelevant in my opinion, if she's not some clingy weirdo. Weirdest chick I met while OLD was giving off serious intense vibes from the get go. It felt off but I went with it anyway and she turned out to be straight nutter butter. I never really put all the information together into a cohesive understanding but I do know if a chick is coming off as intense, you should be wary.

Great post dude. I know exactly what you mean. That's the feeling I'm getting from this one, a weird kind of intensity that isn't usually there.

be careful. sounds like a trap to me honestly. theres people out there preying on desperate guys in ONL. you show up and a bunch of dudes come and beat the crap out of you and rob you

Haha, I've been indoors writing a report for three weeks. Having a punch up with some morons might liven things up?! ;P

 

[marmel75]

Fvck them. I mean wtf is this?