Crazy **** going down with my Ex

[judoguy]

sooo I had a real bad day at work and wrote my facebook status something along the lines of "Done with this job, Freedom at last "....Not fully commiting to quitting, just putting it out there as a status.

Anyway... after putting this as my status...My ex calls me ! My roomate picks up and goes... "hey i think its April, my (GF's name is Veronica)... then I say.. ask her who it is.. he asks and she replies with... Veronica...his ex gf !... I tell him to tell her I dont want to talk and go back to sleep.

20 minutes later my friggin mother calls me... asking me if I quit my job. She then informs me that my ex called my mom crying saying that she is scared she is the reason that I quit my job.

Are you kidding me !... This ***** dumps me... I break contact with her and she still thinks she is in my life influencing my decisions !?!?

Get over yourself *****... MY world doesn't revolve around princess Veronica anymore !

Anyway how would you guys handle this? I mean now im getting *****ed at by two women... my mom and my ex

**** hahahaha

 

[piranha45]

she did it for no reason other than to get your attention. you cut it off, and now she's resorting to childish attempts at regaining it. don't ever answer when she calls you, and dont ever call her.

 

[judoguy]

oh yea i forgot to mention... we are not facebook friends so she is somehow spying on my account.. possibly through mutual friends...

 

[piranha45]

and tell your mom that you hate your ex and don't ever want to hear from her again.

 

[Trader]

Funny how *stalkers* are usually thought of as being guys

Girls are just as crazy - this is crazy - yes cut her off COMPLETELY

 

[Ambition Now]

Thats how egocentric people behave, they think everything that happens on their surroundings must be linked to them in someway...

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

Delete your facebook and go get in a fight, what the hell kind of men are we?

 

[Luthor Rex]

Thats how egocentric people behave, they think everything that happens on their surroundings must be linked to them in someway...

It's these kinds of delusional people who also tend to be the most self confidant. Which makes them even more impossible to deal with.

:crazy:

 

[SXS]

Dont try to cut her off, that doesnt work.

Instead, say that you cant live without her, that you cant work, you cant eat, you love her, and you will do anything to get her back, and will start calling her everyday.

She will move to another city.

 

[ketostix]

Well this is a good example of how I say even cutting off a woman doesn't necessarily send her the message you intended. She just rationalizes that you still long for her anyway.

 

[decades]

go No Contact.

 

[amoka]

this is powerful. She managed to call you and when you don't want to talk, she called your mother? Does your mother not know that she dumbbed you?

 

[Heretolearn]

why is she still on your facebook..........

 

[Heretolearn]

my bpd has been emailing me, messaging me, and AIMing me for the past 7 months on and off. I haven't responded to her yet but i guess she doesn't get the picture.

not to mention she's bad a bf those 7 whole months after we broke up.

Thats because if she is BPD, she lives in her reality not yours or anyone elses. Meaning, your logic is irrelevant and overruled by her whims/justification/perception lol.

Hence the more trouble than they are worth tag sadly....