Ok here is what happened. In the area where i work there is this blond that is in college and works at a local coffee shop from 3-11. Well the first time i was in there she was pretty blunt and proceeded to inform me that she wanted me. She is about a 7 in my book.. her body is around a 9.5 though but the fact that shes a raging nympho knocks her down a notch. Well anyway the other day i decided to take her out after work and as expected she gave it up right away. Well now she informed everyone that i work with about it and also keeps calling me over and over and over... I mean i will take her as a piece of ass anyday but how to i deal with this obvious sticky situation.. there is no way in hell i want to date this chick.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Crazy girl
- Thread starter heater528
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Do whatever you want. If you want her to stop calling, tell her to stop calling. Let her know she's the one who picked the terms of your interactions (she wanted sex) and you aren't responsible if she's developing feelings or whatever. You were just giving her what she wanted.
In truth, if you want to be rid of her quickly, go AFC on her
In truth, if you want to be rid of her quickly, go AFC on her