Ok here is what happened. In the area where i work there is this blond that is in college and works at a local coffee shop from 3-11. Well the first time i was in there she was pretty blunt and proceeded to inform me that she wanted me. She is about a 7 in my book.. her body is around a 9.5 though but the fact that shes a raging nympho knocks her down a notch. Well anyway the other day i decided to take her out after work and as expected she gave it up right away. Well now she informed everyone that i work with about it and also keeps calling me over and over and over... I mean i will take her as a piece of ass anyday but how to i deal with this obvious sticky situation.. there is no way in hell i want to date this chick.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Crazy girl
- Thread starter heater528
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Do whatever you want. If you want her to stop calling, tell her to stop calling. Let her know she's the one who picked the terms of your interactions (she wanted sex) and you aren't responsible if she's developing feelings or whatever. You were just giving her what she wanted.
In truth, if you want to be rid of her quickly, go AFC on her
In truth, if you want to be rid of her quickly, go AFC on her