Ok here is what happened. In the area where i work there is this blond that is in college and works at a local coffee shop from 3-11. Well the first time i was in there she was pretty blunt and proceeded to inform me that she wanted me. She is about a 7 in my book.. her body is around a 9.5 though but the fact that shes a raging nympho knocks her down a notch. Well anyway the other day i decided to take her out after work and as expected she gave it up right away. Well now she informed everyone that i work with about it and also keeps calling me over and over and over... I mean i will take her as a piece of ass anyday but how to i deal with this obvious sticky situation.. there is no way in hell i want to date this chick.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do whatever you want. If you want her to stop calling, tell her to stop calling. Let her know she's the one who picked the terms of your interactions (she wanted sex) and you aren't responsible if she's developing feelings or whatever. You were just giving her what she wanted.
In truth, if you want to be rid of her quickly, go AFC on her
In truth, if you want to be rid of her quickly, go AFC on her