"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Crazy girl tryin to get pregnant

jp98502

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This girl I been with latley is startin to get crazy, she would constantly try to do it without a condom, and then I caught her tryin to squeez stuff out of condom into her!! AHHH
So I figure its time to call it quits with her cause that freaked me out. Now she wont stop callin me leaving crazy s*** on my voicemail. Im kinda scared cause I dont know how many times she has done it. Some times we were very drunk. What happens if she succeeds and ends up prego and entraps me is there a law against that kind of thing? Im done with her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lordson

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maybe if you have some proof that shes crazy and has actively trying to get herself pregnant, a court of law will find in your favour
 

Blackmm

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Or just stop seeing her.
 

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Blackmm said:
Or just stop seeing her.

It's strange people have to come into this forum and make threads like this when all you have to do is the above...walk the **** away ffs.

Demonic
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Miguel

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Well the good thing from this madness is at least you know someone wants to have your baby... Your genes will survive man.
 
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JP, you must post a pic of this girl so we can all be witnesses.. this is important.
 

decades

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jp98502 said:
This girl I been with latley is startin to get crazy, she would constantly try to do it without a condom, and then I caught her tryin to squeez stuff out of condom into her!! AHHH
So I figure its time to call it quits with her cause that freaked me out. Now she wont stop callin me leaving crazy s*** on my voicemail. Im kinda scared cause I dont know how many times she has done it. Some times we were very drunk. What happens if she succeeds and ends up prego and entraps me is there a law against that kind of thing? Im done with her.
try to get her on Maury Povich. They love gals like this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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