"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Crazy ex girlfriend

MountainSlide

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 17, 2014
Messages
612
Reaction score
357
So my psycho ex that I blocked off of every medium of communication sent me an email this morning. Not only that, but right before I got the email, I received a notification from Facebook to change my password. Lol. I wasn’t trying to change my password. I haven’t talked to her for a few months and she is happily in another relationship now :lol::lol:. Anyway. No real point to this post, just wanted to comment that she’s a ratchet hoe.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Mazer

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 5, 2017
Messages
801
Reaction score
890
Age
48
So my psycho ex that I blocked off of every medium of communication sent me an email this morning. Not only that, but right before I got the email, I received a notification from Facebook to change my password. Lol. I wasn’t trying to change my password. I haven’t talked to her for a few months and she is happily in another relationship now :lol::lol:. Anyway. No real point to this post, just wanted to comment that she’s a ratchet hoe.
Wants to see if she still has you or her new man ain’t doin it for her at the moment. Continue ignoring the ratchet hoe.
 

bobafatt

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 30, 2015
Messages
91
Reaction score
43
In a very similar situation to yourself MountainSlide and i just posted a thread about it too!

Dont go down with that b***** boat. As Mazer said she's only getting in contact to make sure you are still around for her, The moment see senses you have moved/moving on with your life she will try so hard to get back in contact, the more you ignore that, the crazier she will become.

Girls will be girls and they make a habit of jumping from one relationship to another, Anything to do with her now is non of your concern. In your mind wish her and her new fella all the best,,,They're gonna need it!

I know for a fact that my ex is missing me, she even admitted to it a couple of days back when she phoned me from an unknown number, i acted indifferent the whole way through and cut the convo short. I know her game and its one i dont want to play anymore.
 

kbbroiler1971

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2018
Messages
139
Reaction score
124
Age
55
Could be an attempt to get you back in her loop. Chicks do this themselves or through other people or even through social media. Don't be surprised if she got someone to hack your password. These women are pyscho!
 

Spaz

Banned
Joined
Jan 14, 2018
Messages
8,337
Reaction score
6,878
Nah not psycho. It's just that intense desire for validation.

If you as a man are utterly miserable then in her eyes and those of her peers, she's a woman who has reached her peaked - the alpha women if it's easier to understand. There's much social grandstanding for her.

If you're not miserable then in her eyes and those of her peers, she's an utter failure, it's a great psychological blow for her and in her standing with her peers.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top