"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MountainSlide

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So my psycho ex that I blocked off of every medium of communication sent me an email this morning. Not only that, but right before I got the email, I received a notification from Facebook to change my password. Lol. I wasn’t trying to change my password. I haven’t talked to her for a few months and she is happily in another relationship now :lol::lol:. Anyway. No real point to this post, just wanted to comment that she’s a ratchet hoe.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mazer

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So my psycho ex that I blocked off of every medium of communication sent me an email this morning. Not only that, but right before I got the email, I received a notification from Facebook to change my password. Lol. I wasn’t trying to change my password. I haven’t talked to her for a few months and she is happily in another relationship now :lol::lol:. Anyway. No real point to this post, just wanted to comment that she’s a ratchet hoe.
Wants to see if she still has you or her new man ain’t doin it for her at the moment. Continue ignoring the ratchet hoe.
 

bobafatt

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In a very similar situation to yourself MountainSlide and i just posted a thread about it too!

Dont go down with that b***** boat. As Mazer said she's only getting in contact to make sure you are still around for her, The moment see senses you have moved/moving on with your life she will try so hard to get back in contact, the more you ignore that, the crazier she will become.

Girls will be girls and they make a habit of jumping from one relationship to another, Anything to do with her now is non of your concern. In your mind wish her and her new fella all the best,,,They're gonna need it!

I know for a fact that my ex is missing me, she even admitted to it a couple of days back when she phoned me from an unknown number, i acted indifferent the whole way through and cut the convo short. I know her game and its one i dont want to play anymore.
 

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Could be an attempt to get you back in her loop. Chicks do this themselves or through other people or even through social media. Don't be surprised if she got someone to hack your password. These women are pyscho!
 

Spaz

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Nah not psycho. It's just that intense desire for validation.

If you as a man are utterly miserable then in her eyes and those of her peers, she's a woman who has reached her peaked - the alpha women if it's easier to understand. There's much social grandstanding for her.

If you're not miserable then in her eyes and those of her peers, she's an utter failure, it's a great psychological blow for her and in her standing with her peers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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