Craziest place you've ever had sex/got bj?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

CuriousGirl

Senior Don Juan

Jul 15, 2010

I don't think I've done anything particularly crazy, I masturbated on a plane to new york once. Otherwise the closest to crazy was sex in the porch of our studio on holiday in greece, we were locked out so just went for it outside, we got interrupted 3 times by different people in the neighbouring studio trying to get in, it was quite annoying. And then after when we were sat against the door catching our breath and stuff we noticed the cctv camera. Greaat. :-\

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.