"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I gotta say, if you haven't seen this movie yet, go see it!

It was probably the most incredible movie I have ever seen in a very very long time. I don't even know what movie would come close. Unbelievable acting, cinematography...it makes you laugh and cry every second.

It's basically about the day-to-day racial "wars" in Los Angeles, and I don't want to give anything away, but it really makes you rethink lots of things.

It's definitely a must see.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Crazy thing Portugal. Can you believe that it'll only arrive to cinemas around me this Friday? What a shame.
Anyways, I'm expecting a lot from this movie. Everyone says it is awesome and amazing and yada yada... Well, finally I'm going to check it out.

Just a side question... Is it a good movie to bring a girl? 'Cause I'm thinking in bringing one with me... :D
 

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The best movie of 2005. I watch it at least once per month.....
 

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I agree.

**********SEMI SPOILER*********************





the scene where the girl is trapped in the car and he rescues her was quite moving





edit - wow old thread
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I second the recommendation. It is a great movie. Note the color symbolism - bad stuff happens in the black SUV, the innocent immigrants were in a white van, the fire almost killed the woman while she was wearing a red dress. Hagis uses white=good/black=bad symbolism, which is in itself a little racist, but this falls within the theme of the movie, which is in part that all of us are a little racist, regardless of our own race.

I never would have thought that a movie of this quality could have been written by the guy who created 'The Love Boat.'

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0353673/

He also created "Walker, Texas Ranger," which means that he knows Chuck fvcking Norris! http://www.chucknorrisfacts.com/
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I second the recommendation. It is a great movie. Note the color symbolism - bad stuff happens in the black SUV, the innocent immigrants were in a white van, the fire almost killed the woman while she was wearing a red dress. Hagis uses white=good/black=bad symbolism, which is in itself a little racist, but this falls within the theme of the movie, which is in part that all of us are a little racist, regardless of our own race.

I never would have thought that a movie of this quality could have been written by the guy who created 'The Love Boat.'

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0353673/

He also created "Walker, Texas Ranger," which means that he knows Chuck fvcking Norris! http://www.chucknorrisfacts.com/
Thats interesting. I never noticed about the colors. Great movie though
 

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Syriana was good as well.

Good night.......... anti-climatic


I never noticed the use of colors in the movie.
 

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It was alright. Honestly I was kinda surprised to hear it got best picture. The acting was good and all, but the story was very predictable and two dimentional. There was too much emotion and not enough substance. I guess I'm just not a sucker for "society issues" type films.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nocturnal said:
I didn't like it. The main idea is that we will never escape racism... how is that a beautiful message? Art is supposed to show the ideal, how things should be. If you want to show how things are, make a documentary.

I dont know about a beautiful message and I actually got the same, we will never escape from racism message at the end. I actually agree with that thought though. We will always have racism, that is until everyone is so mixed that no one can tell what country they are from.
 

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great movie!!! only stupid ppl didnt like it.
 

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I felt racisms on both sides of the fence (been in the majority hating the minority and also the other way around) and this movie only reminded me of what racism really is: hate for someone you dont even know.

I wish I didnt see it because it brought a lot of demons back in my mind, but overall a good movie.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nocturnal said:
I didn't like it. The main idea is that we will never escape racism... how is that a beautiful message? Art is supposed to show the ideal, how things should be. If you want to show how things are, make a documentary.
THANK YOU. I feel the exact same way. The movie was people being racist to each other for 90 minutes. Granted, at the end some people became less racist, but then some became even worse offenders. The underlying message is that yes, racism sucks, but we'll all pretty much be racists whether we like it or not.

If I want to watch people be racist to each other, I can pretty much go anywhere that predominantly features rich, white males.
 

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It basically shows how racism is manifested. I thought it was an excellent movie, it illustrates a lot of difficult situations that provoke thought. Such a damn good sociological movie!
 
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