“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I gotta say, if you haven't seen this movie yet, go see it!

It was probably the most incredible movie I have ever seen in a very very long time. I don't even know what movie would come close. Unbelievable acting, cinematography...it makes you laugh and cry every second.

It's basically about the day-to-day racial "wars" in Los Angeles, and I don't want to give anything away, but it really makes you rethink lots of things.

It's definitely a must see.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Crazy thing Portugal. Can you believe that it'll only arrive to cinemas around me this Friday? What a shame.
Anyways, I'm expecting a lot from this movie. Everyone says it is awesome and amazing and yada yada... Well, finally I'm going to check it out.

Just a side question... Is it a good movie to bring a girl? 'Cause I'm thinking in bringing one with me... :D
 

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The best movie of 2005. I watch it at least once per month.....
 

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I agree.

**********SEMI SPOILER*********************





the scene where the girl is trapped in the car and he rescues her was quite moving





edit - wow old thread
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I second the recommendation. It is a great movie. Note the color symbolism - bad stuff happens in the black SUV, the innocent immigrants were in a white van, the fire almost killed the woman while she was wearing a red dress. Hagis uses white=good/black=bad symbolism, which is in itself a little racist, but this falls within the theme of the movie, which is in part that all of us are a little racist, regardless of our own race.

I never would have thought that a movie of this quality could have been written by the guy who created 'The Love Boat.'

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0353673/

He also created "Walker, Texas Ranger," which means that he knows Chuck fvcking Norris! http://www.chucknorrisfacts.com/
 

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Bible_Belt said:
I second the recommendation. It is a great movie. Note the color symbolism - bad stuff happens in the black SUV, the innocent immigrants were in a white van, the fire almost killed the woman while she was wearing a red dress. Hagis uses white=good/black=bad symbolism, which is in itself a little racist, but this falls within the theme of the movie, which is in part that all of us are a little racist, regardless of our own race.

I never would have thought that a movie of this quality could have been written by the guy who created 'The Love Boat.'

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0353673/

He also created "Walker, Texas Ranger," which means that he knows Chuck fvcking Norris! http://www.chucknorrisfacts.com/
Thats interesting. I never noticed about the colors. Great movie though
 

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Syriana was good as well.

Good night.......... anti-climatic


I never noticed the use of colors in the movie.
 

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It was alright. Honestly I was kinda surprised to hear it got best picture. The acting was good and all, but the story was very predictable and two dimentional. There was too much emotion and not enough substance. I guess I'm just not a sucker for "society issues" type films.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nocturnal said:
I didn't like it. The main idea is that we will never escape racism... how is that a beautiful message? Art is supposed to show the ideal, how things should be. If you want to show how things are, make a documentary.

I dont know about a beautiful message and I actually got the same, we will never escape from racism message at the end. I actually agree with that thought though. We will always have racism, that is until everyone is so mixed that no one can tell what country they are from.
 

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great movie!!! only stupid ppl didnt like it.
 

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I felt racisms on both sides of the fence (been in the majority hating the minority and also the other way around) and this movie only reminded me of what racism really is: hate for someone you dont even know.

I wish I didnt see it because it brought a lot of demons back in my mind, but overall a good movie.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nocturnal said:
I didn't like it. The main idea is that we will never escape racism... how is that a beautiful message? Art is supposed to show the ideal, how things should be. If you want to show how things are, make a documentary.
THANK YOU. I feel the exact same way. The movie was people being racist to each other for 90 minutes. Granted, at the end some people became less racist, but then some became even worse offenders. The underlying message is that yes, racism sucks, but we'll all pretty much be racists whether we like it or not.

If I want to watch people be racist to each other, I can pretty much go anywhere that predominantly features rich, white males.
 

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It basically shows how racism is manifested. I thought it was an excellent movie, it illustrates a lot of difficult situations that provoke thought. Such a damn good sociological movie!
 
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