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Crash and burn last night, or no?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hm, well the girl does seem to have a few issues. What she did is something that I would figure would happen between close friends or possibly close boyfriend/girlfriends, especially since what she did was extremely rude if it was a first date with you. So at least she feels she can be honest with you.
If she thinks you're hot and offers another date, then I still think you're in the clear. Just be sure to pick a good movie next time.
I think you played your role fine, there's definitely something wacky about this girl in particular. When I see a crappy movie with a date, we can usually finish it and end up joking about the bad parts and laugh after the whole thing.
She didn't end the date on a high note, but I'd just wait and see what her next move is. If she's interested in you and ends a date that early mid-movie, she should be the one initiating the next date if she is still interested. You'd do the same if you were interested in someone and broke a date in the middle.
I say sit back and relax and see where it goes.
If she thinks you're hot and offers another date, then I still think you're in the clear. Just be sure to pick a good movie next time.
I think you played your role fine, there's definitely something wacky about this girl in particular. When I see a crappy movie with a date, we can usually finish it and end up joking about the bad parts and laugh after the whole thing.
She didn't end the date on a high note, but I'd just wait and see what her next move is. If she's interested in you and ends a date that early mid-movie, she should be the one initiating the next date if she is still interested. You'd do the same if you were interested in someone and broke a date in the middle.
I say sit back and relax and see where it goes.
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Sounds right.
I'll probably see her tonight at this party- so I'll talk her up and see how she reacts.
I had intended to call next week to set up the 2nd date. Should I just wait back and force her to offer the next one?
I'll probably see her tonight at this party- so I'll talk her up and see how she reacts.
I had intended to call next week to set up the 2nd date. Should I just wait back and force her to offer the next one?
Well, I think you should judge how she acts at this party tonight. If she acts like she's still interested then I don't really see anything wrong with calling her up and setting up that second date. If she already counter-offered, you can just take her up on that offer, and it's all good.
I don't see any hurt in waiting about a week to see if she brings up her offer in that time. If she doesn't, then go ahead and try to take her up on it. When she offered, it showed her interest in a second date, that should be enough for you to make the next move without worry. Just becareful if she pulls another stunt like the one before.
I don't see any hurt in waiting about a week to see if she brings up her offer in that time. If she doesn't, then go ahead and try to take her up on it. When she offered, it showed her interest in a second date, that should be enough for you to make the next move without worry. Just becareful if she pulls another stunt like the one before.
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She had something on her mind - All the signs were there. The folded arms and nervous posture, and the impatient attitude along with the immediate departure - she was all tied up in her mind about something, that's all. Sit back, relax, and let her make the next move. In the meantime, occupy yourself with something. You're a DJ - you've got plenty of chicks to be calling . But remember - it's her move, if she doesn't act, NEXT her. You played your role nicely, by the way.
. But remember - it's her move, if she doesn't act, NEXT her. You played your role nicely, by the way.CrombieStyle
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Re: Re: Crash and burn last night, or no?
I totally agree, but when you live in bum Fack maine there's little to pick from.