"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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coolkid800

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Okay, there is this girl and one dude I know told her friends that I like her right in front of me, but the girl wasn't there. Then some of my friends joined in and said I liked her , too and then her friends were like "awwwwwwwe." I'm thinking "WTF?!?!" Anyways, now, the girl definitely thinks I like her which I don't, I just think she looks good and I wouldn't mind hitting it, but she is supposed to be one of the hottest girls around. Now, how should I handle this situation? I mean I def wanted to hit it, but now I don't know how to approach her because she will think I like her like that and I won't be a challenge for her to get my likeness! Btw, shes in my second period Spanish 4 class. We def had some eye contact from time to time, but her as$ never smiled. I didn't smile either. And today, she passed me by and I saw her giving me a mean kind of look, too! lol, this is a funny situation to me
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Damian

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Neg Neg NEG! If she knows that you're trying to get her, she'll put up the B!tch shield. Throw a few funny negs at her while you're talking to her friends, to act as a false disqualifier. After that, just do her like a normal set.

-Damian
 

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Originally posted by Damian
Neg Neg NEG! If she knows that you're trying to get her, she'll put up the B!tch shield. Throw a few funny negs at her while you're talking to her friends, to act as a false disqualifier. After that, just do her like a normal set.

-Damian
Wow, you've created a formula to get girls. Frightening.


Anyways, it's probably good that she knows... she probably likes you back. Go up to her, be like "hey what's goin on Kristy" or whatever her name is, and ask her to get some ice cream or jamba juice or McDonalds after class. Make her realize you're a cool cat. Be Slick Rick, not Pushy Pete, ok?
 

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Anyways, it's probably good that she knows... she probably likes you back. Go up to her, be like "hey what's goin on Kristy" or whatever her name is, and ask her to get some ice cream or jamba juice or McDonalds after class. Make her realize you're a cool cat. Be Slick Rick, not Pushy Pete, ok?
Hey man, you can never know for sure when i girl likes you or not. Body language is hard to read and she may lie. Instead of over thinking about if she likes you or not, just know that: ITS ALWAYS ON. If she's talking to you, then she likes you to a certain degree.

NEVER NEVER TAKE A GIRL TO McDonalds. that place has no class, its dirty cheap, and what do people usually do there? They eat and get fat. Jamba juice is good, as well as Starbucks. Key point: Avoid fast-food restruants for dates/get togethers.

And good job for keeping up the challenge. Now you start attracting her.
 
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