"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay, there is this girl and one dude I know told her friends that I like her right in front of me, but the girl wasn't there. Then some of my friends joined in and said I liked her , too and then her friends were like "awwwwwwwe." I'm thinking "WTF?!?!" Anyways, now, the girl definitely thinks I like her which I don't, I just think she looks good and I wouldn't mind hitting it, but she is supposed to be one of the hottest girls around. Now, how should I handle this situation? I mean I def wanted to hit it, but now I don't know how to approach her because she will think I like her like that and I won't be a challenge for her to get my likeness! Btw, shes in my second period Spanish 4 class. We def had some eye contact from time to time, but her as$ never smiled. I didn't smile either. And today, she passed me by and I saw her giving me a mean kind of look, too! lol, this is a funny situation to me
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Neg Neg NEG! If she knows that you're trying to get her, she'll put up the B!tch shield. Throw a few funny negs at her while you're talking to her friends, to act as a false disqualifier. After that, just do her like a normal set.

-Damian
 

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Originally posted by Damian
Neg Neg NEG! If she knows that you're trying to get her, she'll put up the B!tch shield. Throw a few funny negs at her while you're talking to her friends, to act as a false disqualifier. After that, just do her like a normal set.

-Damian
Wow, you've created a formula to get girls. Frightening.


Anyways, it's probably good that she knows... she probably likes you back. Go up to her, be like "hey what's goin on Kristy" or whatever her name is, and ask her to get some ice cream or jamba juice or McDonalds after class. Make her realize you're a cool cat. Be Slick Rick, not Pushy Pete, ok?
 

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Anyways, it's probably good that she knows... she probably likes you back. Go up to her, be like "hey what's goin on Kristy" or whatever her name is, and ask her to get some ice cream or jamba juice or McDonalds after class. Make her realize you're a cool cat. Be Slick Rick, not Pushy Pete, ok?
Hey man, you can never know for sure when i girl likes you or not. Body language is hard to read and she may lie. Instead of over thinking about if she likes you or not, just know that: ITS ALWAYS ON. If she's talking to you, then she likes you to a certain degree.

NEVER NEVER TAKE A GIRL TO McDonalds. that place has no class, its dirty cheap, and what do people usually do there? They eat and get fat. Jamba juice is good, as well as Starbucks. Key point: Avoid fast-food restruants for dates/get togethers.

And good job for keeping up the challenge. Now you start attracting her.
 
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