greatsnake
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Give me some reasons as to why I should stop wanting to have z3x with my coworker. Every time we talk at work it’s non-stop sexual innuendos and she’s married.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
BackInTheGame78
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Maybe because if her husband finds out you could have a live shooter situation at your job?
Do you really need to ask for reasons? This is common sense.
Don't $hit where you eat, especially in this age of #metoo movement and compounded with a married woman. That's a no-no.
Don't be that desperate no matter how good your relation is with each other. You'll probably find out that the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
If you were close, I'd knock some sense into you. Literally...
Don't $hit where you eat, especially in this age of #metoo movement and compounded with a married woman. That's a no-no.
Don't be that desperate no matter how good your relation is with each other. You'll probably find out that the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
If you were close, I'd knock some sense into you. Literally...
KindredSpiritzz
Senior Don Juan
I dated a co worker for 3 months, 5 yrs later im still suffering from that mistake. It's great until it goes bad and then suddenly you're the A hole and got to worry about your job or a jealous husband. It's not worth it.