"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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greatsnake

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Give me some reasons as to why I should stop wanting to have z3x with my coworker. Every time we talk at work it’s non-stop sexual innuendos and she’s married.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lookatu

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Do you really need to ask for reasons? This is common sense.
Don't $hit where you eat, especially in this age of #metoo movement and compounded with a married woman. That's a no-no.
Don't be that desperate no matter how good your relation is with each other. You'll probably find out that the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
If you were close, I'd knock some sense into you. Literally...
 
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