"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Coworker hitting on me?

Meisterman

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How would you handle a situation of a hot coworker flirting/hitting on you at a part time job? Last time I got involved with a girl who I worked with it ended badly, although I'm only working there until my second semester starts in January, then I'll be back for spring break + all of summer.

It seems hard because I know I could probably fvck her but it almost doesn't seem worth it since she's a coworker. I think maybe I'm better off letting it go and pursuing girls elsewhere, while spinning plates back on campus instead. Just wanted to hear your guys take on it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sylvester the cat

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Co-workers are low hanging fruit. I know of one couple I work with who met through work and married. Im sensing more out of laziness and convenience more than anything else. Although they tried to convince everyone otherwise with their dream wedding which the HUSBAND, not the wife, has plastered all over his work space.
 

stevo

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I'd say fcuk her. I do it all the time.


You separate work from seks.


At work, dont even interact with her, if you used to after fcuking cut all the physical interactions, only converse through text/call.


My qualification process though is to make sure she's really with it before I initiate anything. She's flirting back heavily, we've slightly "mistakenly" kino'd and she's still forthcoming then yeah we're gravy from that point.


You also have to remember, it is strictly fcuking, no emotions. Dont encourage it and dont catch it.
 

Masculinity

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Meisterman said:
How would you handle a situation of a hot coworker flirting/hitting on you at a part time job? Last time I got involved with a girl who I worked with it ended badly.
I think you've answered your own question already. To add to the topic, though, seeing women from work usually doesn't end well because women are emotional beings. Furthermore, she can easily accuse you of sexual harassment. When it comes to anything related to abuse, unfortunately and shamefully, a woman's "word" carries more weight than a man's word, even if you are totally innocent. There more women than men in most places. I am confident that you can find another one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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