Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Coworker hitting on me?

Meisterman

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How would you handle a situation of a hot coworker flirting/hitting on you at a part time job? Last time I got involved with a girl who I worked with it ended badly, although I'm only working there until my second semester starts in January, then I'll be back for spring break + all of summer.

It seems hard because I know I could probably fvck her but it almost doesn't seem worth it since she's a coworker. I think maybe I'm better off letting it go and pursuing girls elsewhere, while spinning plates back on campus instead. Just wanted to hear your guys take on it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sylvester the cat

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Co-workers are low hanging fruit. I know of one couple I work with who met through work and married. Im sensing more out of laziness and convenience more than anything else. Although they tried to convince everyone otherwise with their dream wedding which the HUSBAND, not the wife, has plastered all over his work space.
 

stevo

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I'd say fcuk her. I do it all the time.


You separate work from seks.


At work, dont even interact with her, if you used to after fcuking cut all the physical interactions, only converse through text/call.


My qualification process though is to make sure she's really with it before I initiate anything. She's flirting back heavily, we've slightly "mistakenly" kino'd and she's still forthcoming then yeah we're gravy from that point.


You also have to remember, it is strictly fcuking, no emotions. Dont encourage it and dont catch it.
 

Masculinity

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Meisterman said:
How would you handle a situation of a hot coworker flirting/hitting on you at a part time job? Last time I got involved with a girl who I worked with it ended badly.
I think you've answered your own question already. To add to the topic, though, seeing women from work usually doesn't end well because women are emotional beings. Furthermore, she can easily accuse you of sexual harassment. When it comes to anything related to abuse, unfortunately and shamefully, a woman's "word" carries more weight than a man's word, even if you are totally innocent. There more women than men in most places. I am confident that you can find another one.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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