"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi Don Juans,

Question for you all. To put things in perspective I've just started daygaming and challenging AA, so I'm a noob. Before this, I had read of game "fundamentals" and slowly started applying them to females I interacted with in school, mainly class.

I noticed that after roughly 5 -10 minutes of conversation, quite a few females would tell me they had a boyfriend, however in a very causal manner (gotta love a woman's subtelty). Not, "I have a boyfriend!" :box: More like, "that's a cool watch. My boyfriend has one like it." Or "yeah, I just hug out with my boyfriend this weekend. We didn't do much" Sometimes this came from girls I considered attractive, other times from chicks I had no interest in.

My natural response was always "ignore", continue conversation/tease about something unrelated. What's the flaw in my game here? I read a sticky suggesting that her mentioning the existence of a male suitor is basically a :kick: because if she were interested, he wouldn't be brought up. I'm not interested in stealing a man's girl. I'd just like to improve my vibe and master the art of charm. What sort of signals urge a female to throw out such a clear boot?

Thanks in advance, mates.

B.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To be honest, i'm not sure what it means when she does this and the psychology behind it doesn't really interest me either.

In my experiences with 'taken' girls, the more she mentions her bf directly correlates to how much lmr u will have to crush/how much time u will have to spend gaming her
 

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I see. Maybe you're right - I might just be overthinking things.

Thanks for the reply
 

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I'd be taking a closer look at what your saying and how right before the borefriend comes into the conversation. Look for that moment when the fun leaves her face and sparkle leaves her eyes.

Boyfriend only gets brought up in conversation if she suspects your less shinier than what she thinks she can already get. This goes ten fold for chicks your age, I'm presuming your youngish. You don't have to be James Bond, just have to be perceived as shinier than the last dingbat who banged her.

Don't draw it out. Excite her, make her think if she doesn't jump on this opportunity she's going to miss out. 9 times out of 10 that's only going to happen if you honestly believe it yourself. And why wouldn't you? She's just another chick, bound by the herd and her latest tweet or fagbook like. You on the other hand scale mountains, can karate chop her to the floor, piss standing up, don't suck at driving, can almost solve a Rubik's cube etc etc.
 

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Lol, I'm a fan of your writing style. Very engaging. And yeah, I am indeed youngish. Now that you mention it, there may be something to that "sparkle drop."

I'm going to do some more approaches and come back here with dialogue.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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