“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hi Don Juans,

Question for you all. To put things in perspective I've just started daygaming and challenging AA, so I'm a noob. Before this, I had read of game "fundamentals" and slowly started applying them to females I interacted with in school, mainly class.

I noticed that after roughly 5 -10 minutes of conversation, quite a few females would tell me they had a boyfriend, however in a very causal manner (gotta love a woman's subtelty). Not, "I have a boyfriend!" :box: More like, "that's a cool watch. My boyfriend has one like it." Or "yeah, I just hug out with my boyfriend this weekend. We didn't do much" Sometimes this came from girls I considered attractive, other times from chicks I had no interest in.

My natural response was always "ignore", continue conversation/tease about something unrelated. What's the flaw in my game here? I read a sticky suggesting that her mentioning the existence of a male suitor is basically a :kick: because if she were interested, he wouldn't be brought up. I'm not interested in stealing a man's girl. I'd just like to improve my vibe and master the art of charm. What sort of signals urge a female to throw out such a clear boot?

Thanks in advance, mates.

B.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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To be honest, i'm not sure what it means when she does this and the psychology behind it doesn't really interest me either.

In my experiences with 'taken' girls, the more she mentions her bf directly correlates to how much lmr u will have to crush/how much time u will have to spend gaming her
 

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I see. Maybe you're right - I might just be overthinking things.

Thanks for the reply
 

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I'd be taking a closer look at what your saying and how right before the borefriend comes into the conversation. Look for that moment when the fun leaves her face and sparkle leaves her eyes.

Boyfriend only gets brought up in conversation if she suspects your less shinier than what she thinks she can already get. This goes ten fold for chicks your age, I'm presuming your youngish. You don't have to be James Bond, just have to be perceived as shinier than the last dingbat who banged her.

Don't draw it out. Excite her, make her think if she doesn't jump on this opportunity she's going to miss out. 9 times out of 10 that's only going to happen if you honestly believe it yourself. And why wouldn't you? She's just another chick, bound by the herd and her latest tweet or fagbook like. You on the other hand scale mountains, can karate chop her to the floor, piss standing up, don't suck at driving, can almost solve a Rubik's cube etc etc.
 

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Lol, I'm a fan of your writing style. Very engaging. And yeah, I am indeed youngish. Now that you mention it, there may be something to that "sparkle drop."

I'm going to do some more approaches and come back here with dialogue.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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