I agree with Challenge Guy.
And some women will approach a guy that's true, but the chances of that happening are low. Now do you wanna go through life on the low chances or do you wanna go through life making your own chances and your own luck?
I believe that nothing happens unless you want it to happen somehow.
I spent the past few weeks not calling this girl as I wasnt sure I liked her, and I wasnt sure if she liked me.
But I ended up calling her anyway on the off chance and the fact that I had nothing to lose but my dignity and that I knew i'd be sick of hearing myself complain about another lost opportunity gone by.
I ended up calling and it was positive. I feel better for it. Now if I didnt call, i'd be at home pulling myself instead of getting some real ass.
As Challenge Guy says, when you're old (and my dad who's 68 says the same), you'll think back on your life and wonder why the fcuk you were so scared to do so many things you wished you could do when you're old.
In love or in anything, if there's something you want to try or a person you'd like to meet, go out there and make it happen.
You are in control of your own destiny, sometimes things dont happen and for those of you who always find something about some post to complain about, dont use the setbacks as a reason to discard everything you've learnt etc but think of how you can refine and learn more.
I did the same and now i've got my DJ skills down to a nice system like McDonalds - and i'm having success....but it took time and small steps and refinement and most of all it took a shift in thinking that required me to grab my balls and squeeze tight if I didnt think I was doing things to my maximum potential.
And some women will approach a guy that's true, but the chances of that happening are low. Now do you wanna go through life on the low chances or do you wanna go through life making your own chances and your own luck?
I believe that nothing happens unless you want it to happen somehow.
I spent the past few weeks not calling this girl as I wasnt sure I liked her, and I wasnt sure if she liked me.
But I ended up calling her anyway on the off chance and the fact that I had nothing to lose but my dignity and that I knew i'd be sick of hearing myself complain about another lost opportunity gone by.
I ended up calling and it was positive. I feel better for it. Now if I didnt call, i'd be at home pulling myself instead of getting some real ass.
As Challenge Guy says, when you're old (and my dad who's 68 says the same), you'll think back on your life and wonder why the fcuk you were so scared to do so many things you wished you could do when you're old.
In love or in anything, if there's something you want to try or a person you'd like to meet, go out there and make it happen.
You are in control of your own destiny, sometimes things dont happen and for those of you who always find something about some post to complain about, dont use the setbacks as a reason to discard everything you've learnt etc but think of how you can refine and learn more.
I did the same and now i've got my DJ skills down to a nice system like McDonalds - and i'm having success....but it took time and small steps and refinement and most of all it took a shift in thinking that required me to grab my balls and squeeze tight if I didnt think I was doing things to my maximum potential.
