"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Couple questions 'bout C+F and girls ;)

faiNt`

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Ok, first of all, is it good if a girl TELLS you that you are ****y, but she says it with a smile and is laughing?

"Haha you're sooooo ****y!"

I think it's good but I wasn't sure.

Secondly, HB 8.5 in my last class of the day - I forget exactly what happend but I knew her name and I introduced myself. We always smile and make eye contact in the halls. The day after I "formally" met her she walks right up to me and starts telling me some story. I sorta didn't pay attention, but I think it's good she is initiating yeah?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ARrocket

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Yeah, of course it's good she initiated.

And yeah, it's a good sign when they do that. David DeAngelo says to say "I'm glad you like it."

I, however, have a different favorite. I like to say "yeah, it's part of my charm...I'm sure you agree (big grin)" That usually gets a laugh ;)
 

Supremo

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Yeah man... girls used to say that, or "you're so conceited" (not quite as good) but always with a smile.

I'd always just reply with, "yeah baby, what's not to be conceited about?" or "um yeah, who wouldn't with a 13 incher between my legs." with a smile.

As long as you're making them laugh, its all good bro.
 
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