"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Couple questions 'bout C+F and girls ;)

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faiNt`

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Ok, first of all, is it good if a girl TELLS you that you are ****y, but she says it with a smile and is laughing?

"Haha you're sooooo ****y!"

I think it's good but I wasn't sure.

Secondly, HB 8.5 in my last class of the day - I forget exactly what happend but I knew her name and I introduced myself. We always smile and make eye contact in the halls. The day after I "formally" met her she walks right up to me and starts telling me some story. I sorta didn't pay attention, but I think it's good she is initiating yeah?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ARrocket

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Yeah, of course it's good she initiated.

And yeah, it's a good sign when they do that. David DeAngelo says to say "I'm glad you like it."

I, however, have a different favorite. I like to say "yeah, it's part of my charm...I'm sure you agree (big grin)" That usually gets a laugh ;)
 
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Yeah man... girls used to say that, or "you're so conceited" (not quite as good) but always with a smile.

I'd always just reply with, "yeah baby, what's not to be conceited about?" or "um yeah, who wouldn't with a 13 incher between my legs." with a smile.

As long as you're making them laugh, its all good bro.
 
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