"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Couple of questions

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Hi guys, thks.

1.) There's this girl that calls herself and treats herself like a princess. So when I first heard that, I asked "So where's the pedestal? I thought princesses are supposed to be on pedestals" and some other stuffs like that. Turned out ok but I'm trying to think of something ****y and funny to call a Princess, any ideas? Thks

2.) Everytime I tell a joke, or think of something funny, I can't help it but burst out in laughter.

That's fine normally since I'm a fun person, but some jokes are meant to be said in this serious and poker face.

So any suggestions on how to control laughters of even just a smile?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You serious? Okay, when you are wanting to laugh or smile, STOP! Now, call the little girl Princess Fiona, like in Shrek.
 
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Originally posted by Diaoz
Hi guys, thks.

1.) There's this girl that calls herself and treats herself like a princess. So when I first heard that, I asked "So where's the pedestal? I thought princesses are supposed to be on pedestals" and some other stuffs like that. Turned out ok but I'm trying to think of something ****y and funny to call a Princess, any ideas? Thks

2.) Everytime I tell a joke, or think of something funny, I can't help it but burst out in laughter.

That's fine normally since I'm a fun person, but some jokes are meant to be said in this serious and poker face.

So any suggestions on how to control laughters of even just a smile?
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Learn how to "smirk". It's a refreshing change from a goofy smile. To me, smiles tend to look a bit forced and phony unless you're laughing. Smirks are especially good for times when you're being a smart arse, too. The vast majority of men grin or smile, but very few smirk. To be honest with you...I'm more likely to be intrigued by the guy with the smirk than the grin or smile. I can't say that all women are like that, though, but I think trying that might work well for you in your situation.
 
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hmm, cool ideas there but how do you define a smirk as a smirk?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don't smirk. It's insincere. People immediately read a smirk as, "I'm smiling, but I'm not really happy...maybe even a little ticked."

And don't laugh at your own jokes...it shows that you're insecure about how funny they are.
 
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yeah I know, I generally prefer to tell jokes with a poker 'oh yeah' kindda face.

but since some are rather funny, I laugh with them "ha ha ha". which is fine too.

the real issue however is that on certain kindda jokes, the thought of it gets me laughing in a rather silly way...BEFORE I can even say it, so it looks rather dumb.

So, how do I control my laughter?
 
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"Hey what's up there Cinderella? Got a question for you . . . when are you FINALLY gonna go from the rags to the riches like Walt Disney said you would?" Or some variation . . .

"Princess? Wow! My friend's dog has the same name! And there's some other similarities too . . . "
 
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