"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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white cloud 8

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Hi,

I have a couple of questions (which hopefully will be answered seriously):

1) When you are out with a girl and the date is going well, and, when you are both about to leave (walk her home) and she invites you up (for something, anything), should I go up (this should be a split second decision)?

2) If you are planning on asking out an older girl (in my situation she is 23, I'm 19) what would be some fun going out/date idea (I'm sort of unsure about this)?


BTW: I may have other questions in a couple more days.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Im not too sure about the first one , i would honestly probably get a brain freeze and just say yes outa habit.

but with the second one , the girl i first dated who was 22 , we were both movie fanatics and we just went to the movies non stop, thats always fun. but you can change it up to suit your personal intersts
 
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Originally posted by white cloud 8
Hi,

I have a couple of questions (which hopefully will be answered seriously):

1) When you are out with a girl and the date is going well, and, when you are both about to leave (walk her home) and she invites you up (for something, anything), should I go up (this should be a split second decision)?
Are you serious??? Damn, you must be 19 years old!! Why make it hard on girls that like you??? Of course you should go up/down/sideways/wherever!!

19 vs. 23 -- hmmmm - where to go?? If a 23 year old girl is going out with a 19 year old she wants you to take her to your/her/an isolated place to do the nasty!!!
 
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