"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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white cloud 8

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Hi,

I have a couple of questions (which hopefully will be answered seriously):

1) When you are out with a girl and the date is going well, and, when you are both about to leave (walk her home) and she invites you up (for something, anything), should I go up (this should be a split second decision)?

2) If you are planning on asking out an older girl (in my situation she is 23, I'm 19) what would be some fun going out/date idea (I'm sort of unsure about this)?


BTW: I may have other questions in a couple more days.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Im not too sure about the first one , i would honestly probably get a brain freeze and just say yes outa habit.

but with the second one , the girl i first dated who was 22 , we were both movie fanatics and we just went to the movies non stop, thats always fun. but you can change it up to suit your personal intersts
 
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Originally posted by white cloud 8
Hi,

I have a couple of questions (which hopefully will be answered seriously):

1) When you are out with a girl and the date is going well, and, when you are both about to leave (walk her home) and she invites you up (for something, anything), should I go up (this should be a split second decision)?
Are you serious??? Damn, you must be 19 years old!! Why make it hard on girls that like you??? Of course you should go up/down/sideways/wherever!!

19 vs. 23 -- hmmmm - where to go?? If a 23 year old girl is going out with a 19 year old she wants you to take her to your/her/an isolated place to do the nasty!!!
 
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