Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hi,

I have a couple of questions (which hopefully will be answered seriously):

1) When you are out with a girl and the date is going well, and, when you are both about to leave (walk her home) and she invites you up (for something, anything), should I go up (this should be a split second decision)?

2) If you are planning on asking out an older girl (in my situation she is 23, I'm 19) what would be some fun going out/date idea (I'm sort of unsure about this)?


BTW: I may have other questions in a couple more days.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Im not too sure about the first one , i would honestly probably get a brain freeze and just say yes outa habit.

but with the second one , the girl i first dated who was 22 , we were both movie fanatics and we just went to the movies non stop, thats always fun. but you can change it up to suit your personal intersts
 
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Originally posted by white cloud 8
Hi,

I have a couple of questions (which hopefully will be answered seriously):

1) When you are out with a girl and the date is going well, and, when you are both about to leave (walk her home) and she invites you up (for something, anything), should I go up (this should be a split second decision)?
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Are you serious??? Damn, you must be 19 years old!! Why make it hard on girls that like you??? Of course you should go up/down/sideways/wherever!!

19 vs. 23 -- hmmmm - where to go?? If a 23 year old girl is going out with a 19 year old she wants you to take her to your/her/an isolated place to do the nasty!!!
 
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