"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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County Fair coming up...

trans_am03

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In a few days the county fair starts. Ive never been but i know they have some rides and other stuff like demolition derby and animals and whatever. Im pretty sure would be a good date-I know I girl from myspace thats going so I'll prolly end up going with her. Anyone else have experiance with taking a date to a county fair?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blinkwatt

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Relax,be yourself(hopefully a man) and have fun.

Get a haircut,clean chaven,Stylish clothing,two shots of high end cologne,clean shoes,Scope before crushing your teeth,buy some gum,clean up your car and let the good times role.
 

BacardiGuy

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lol I brought a girl to it without knowing what it really was. It was hardcore redneck and pretty much a waste of time. Fortunately I had known the girl well enough for her to not care the place sucked and we just left to go elsewhere.
 
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