"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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County Fair coming up...

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trans_am03

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In a few days the county fair starts. Ive never been but i know they have some rides and other stuff like demolition derby and animals and whatever. Im pretty sure would be a good date-I know I girl from myspace thats going so I'll prolly end up going with her. Anyone else have experiance with taking a date to a county fair?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blinkwatt

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Relax,be yourself(hopefully a man) and have fun.

Get a haircut,clean chaven,Stylish clothing,two shots of high end cologne,clean shoes,Scope before crushing your teeth,buy some gum,clean up your car and let the good times role.
 
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BacardiGuy

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lol I brought a girl to it without knowing what it really was. It was hardcore redneck and pretty much a waste of time. Fortunately I had known the girl well enough for her to not care the place sucked and we just left to go elsewhere.
 
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