"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Countering AMOG's?

ElStud

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 29, 2007
Messages
1,897
Reaction score
24
This doesn't have anything to do with seduction, but just AMOG's in general. In High School AMOG's are VAST. The kids who will try to ruin your game and try to get you down when you're improving. The more they see people starting to like you, the more jealous they get and the more they try and get you down. The term AMOG is really giving these guys too much pride because they're not Alpha Males in any way, shape or form. But these are generally the loser or not so loser guys, who try to get you down when they see you improving. There's one particular Freshman AMOG I'm trying to deal with right now. So I'm just sitting in the senior lounge and I'm talking to this group of girls who are friends of mine and this ignoramous AMOG kid starts throwing his food at me. I didn't really react, but one of the girls was like "Ew! Can you tell him to stop?". Yes, even the GIRLS hate this guy. Basically man, this guy is what you call a hater. He sees me improving starting to not care what other people think and he starts saying sh*t like "Are you retarded?" and I just say "F*ck you man". And I can tell the kid is a loser too, all he does is sit down at lunch and he doesn't talk to anyone except his friends that sit down with him.

But basically man, how do you combat AMOG's?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

BigPoppa

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 3, 2007
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
He's a freshman, and it sounds like you are a senior, why didn't you beat his ass?
 

ElStud

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 29, 2007
Messages
1,897
Reaction score
24
BigPoppa said:
He's a freshman, and it sounds like you are a senior, why didn't you beat his ass?
Let's see, first of all he's not worth it. Second of all, I'm not about to get into a fight because some dumb freshman kid did some stupid sh*t to me. The kids just honestly not worth getting a possible suspension over.
 

Fisherman

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 29, 2007
Messages
19
Reaction score
0
Location
Europe
ElStud said:
Let's see, first of all he's not worth it. Second of all, I'm not about to get into a fight because some dumb freshman kid did some stupid sh*t to me. The kids just honestly not worth getting a possible suspension over.
make sure to have witnessess, and then have him attack you with the first strike?

Then you get to both beat him up and get him suspended. :whistle:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

smooth guy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2007
Messages
306
Reaction score
3
ElStud said:
Let's see, first of all he's not worth it. Second of all, I'm not about to get into a fight because some dumb freshman kid did some stupid sh*t to me. The kids just honestly not worth getting a possible suspension over.
Whether it's worth it or not isn't the issue here.

You mustn't take **** from anybody, ESPECIALLY when they're lower status than you are. By ignoring you show him that you are weak. It's not a matter of being mature.. if being mature means you'll have some punk ass moron throwing food at you while you're with a female group then **** maturity.

Next time go up to him and give him a serious warning not to pull that **** on you. Warn him that if he persists next time you're gonna be the one approaching him with food in your hand shoving it straight up his ass.

Even if the guy is stronger than you, stand up tall for yourself man. Just don't take that kind of ****, unless it is done in a playful manner.
 

ligyron

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 9, 2007
Messages
74
Reaction score
0
First of all, I'm very impressed by your ability to not react to someone trying to get a reaction out of you. You clearly realized that was the case and not reacting took a lot of self-discipline. The problem is, certain actions warrant certain reactions

I'm not going to tell you what you should have done, or what I would have done, because everyone's tolerance is different. Remember though that people will treat you as you allow them to treat you. You obviously have a problem with this, or you wouldn't be posting about it on an internet forum, so I suggest you take the necessary actions to prevent this behavior from people
 
Top