"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Edit: read more of the thread. Smooth is coming at the debt thing sameway I am - British perspective, live within your means, debt is death.

We are pretty harsh on debt over here, it's a poor people thing. Cultural thing, I would personally rather die than leave anyone I love in debt. Debt kills families. Different upbringing, hence why I think Richard's decision has been met with mixed emotions, I would never do it. Pay for what you can afford and live accordingly.
Indeed, maybe that is a Brit thing. The only time I'd ever want a debt is if I'm just starting a business, and it's the very first loan I needed for it or something like that. That's the only type of debt I'd wilfully get into, and only if I'd established a very rigorous plan for how I'm going to pay it off.

I think it's also a clash of flat out LMS/materialism versus a more personal approach to SMV. I've always thought the best way to be successful with women, even just socialising, is to improve your most personal assets first. I'm talking about things like physique, haircut, personality and developing charm.

If I'm not charming enough, all that happens is I lose the interest of a girl/friend/colleague. If I'm attracting people because I'm muscular and funny, I can't lose that unless something really horrific and out of my control happens (like a freak accident or something). On the other hand, if everything that makes me magnetic relies on money and I default on my loan...well, I lose all of my magnetism AND a f*ck ton more.

So I don't disagree with Richard's Lamborghini or why he bought it, I think I just have different priorities in terms of what I'd improve first and foremost. For me, the Lambo would be something I'd get as the cherry on the top once I'm already happy with my looks, my physique, my sense of style and my bank balance. But maybe he's already happy there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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this is the biggest modern thread I've ever seen on sosuave wow, 13 pages in 2 weeks in a month old thread.
 
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