"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Couldn't care less Vs Could care less

Which one do you use?

  • Couldn't care less

    Votes: 20 76.9%
  • Could care less

    Votes: 3 11.5%
  • Neither

    Votes: 3 11.5%

  • Total voters
    26

Adam See

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I've never got this, it's completely alien to me as to why people say it.

Couldn't care less means you couldn't care anything less about something.

Could care less means you care a slight bit and could care less.

It's never been 'could care less'! it's 'couldn't care less'! :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KOSR

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I could care less about this threat!

I think it's could, meant as slightly degrading and sarcastic.

But whatever :D
 

Nocturnal

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Sounded interesting so I did some looking...

http://c2.com/cgi/wiki?IdiomsAreAtomic

"Thus, an idiom's internal structure may be ungrammatical, logically invalid ('I could care less' for 'I couldn't care less', a sarcastic variant of the latter which became common in and of itself)"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DjDreamer

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If I don't care about something i don't bother to think or talk about it...

So... if you continue to talk about a subject after you say "I couldn't care less" about that subject...you're a hypocrite...

Saying "I could care less" is more realistic...
 

Nocturnal

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Originally posted by photo 1
could care less implies that you could actually care less about it and so you have not reached the bottom end of how much you do not care about something.. therefore it's not something you totally dont care about which therefore is wrong used in the context most people use it

couldn't care less means you literally could not care less about it, you have reached the bottom limit of how much you care about it, in other words you dont care about it at all, you care about everything else more.. this is the correct way to say it..
Yes but idioms are far from literal so it would be safe to say that if enough people use one form or the other, it still has an implied meaning.
 

Bonhomme

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Call the logic police!

Actually neither is strictly correct. They're both relative expressions that do not automatically state any particular level of caring. Could or could not care less than what?

But if one doesn't care at all, then it certainly follows that they could not care less.

It's basically an abuse of "if/then" logic.
 

silverwex

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Unusual coz i was gonna post about this a few months ago.

I always the americans saying could care less but that doesnt make sense. Couldnt care less is correct.
 

Jay-X

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in italian, correct form is the translation of "couldn't care less", but we often say "could care less" too... i think it's easier to pronounce when ur talkin' fast, so even if it's an incorrect form, it's used a lot...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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